Showing posts with label 2026. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 2026. Show all posts

2.09.2026

TGIM

The high of the last week was: Watching the Superbowl! I had to get up today (Monday) and go to a bar at 7:00 am to do it, but it was so fun. I am not a huge American football fan, and I prefer the Niners over either of the teams that were playing, but it was so nice to have a taste of home. I love traveling, and seeing other cultures and trying to learn languages, but dang, sometimes it is nice to have people around you who you can talk about San Francisco burritos with! 

The low of the last week was: I am still struggling to get into a routine this year. I have been working out a bit here and there and have been getting some admin things done that need to be done, but I don't feel motivated to really dig in deep. I made a list of daily tasks a few days ago and I am checking them off each day in order to try to get my habits on track again, but it has been difficult lately. 

Something I marked off my to-do list was: I started looking into whether or not I am going to keep my professional licenses. If I do want to, I need to pay and do a bunch of continuing education by March 15, which kind of has me dragging my feet. I have been putting off the decision and I got a little bit closer (but still have not made the jump yet). I also got a bunch of travel planning done for April and have made forward progress on some plans for August as well. 

The book I am reading is: I just finished Nicole's book Inhale, Exhale, which I enjoyed (I will not spoil it by saying any more than that!), and I started What Kind of Paradise, which I am liking so far as well. I am on a reading roll at the moment! 

The best thing I spent money on was: I paid the final payment for the Alaska cruise, after rerunning the price and getting it for about $700 cheaper than the original price (pro tip: always double check the price of your cruise before paying in full, as they will honor lower pricing). So it was still a big chunk of change, but hey, I am happy that I can now buy $700 worth of drinks instead. Just kidding! 

Plans for this week include: This week I will complete my comprehensive health exam (I did about 75% of it last week but still have a few tests left to do), I have two meetups scheduled and I plan to do a couple of hikes! 

My favorite photos from the last week is are

Street art in Taipei

Artistic manhole cover

Liberty Square Archway

Lunch at health exam clinic

What good book have you read lately?

2.02.2026

What I Learned, Looking Forward, Looking Back: January 2026

I know that for some, January was a cold and bleak month, but I was lucky to be in a place where that wasn't the case. After spending the holidays with family, I set off again, this time heading westward from home. It didn't start without a bit of adventure though, as the day I left, flights were being canceled right and left due to the conflict with Venezuela, and the airspace was closed over the Caribbean. My flight was delayed, then delayed again, then canceled. The wait time on the phone for an agent to figure out what do do was eight hours. I tried the chat, but as they often are now, it was a bot, and it was not very helpful! I got onto another flight, which was also delayed, then delayed again, but finally I made it out of the country! I ended up spending about 10 hours in the San Francisco airport. 

Pro tip: don't take no for an answer. When I got to the airport, despite not needing to check a bag, I stood in line for an agent. I asked him if he could put me on a different carrier, since the only other flight on my carrier (Delta) was the next day. He told me that with my 30 minute layover in Seattle, even with the delay, I was "going to be fine with the connection," aka, I would make my next flight. I was highly doubtful, so once I was inside the airport, I went to another desk with a real person and was put on a direct United flight, which is what I would have wanted anyway. Unfortunately this flight was also delayed and I ended up getting in about 4 hours later than I would have originally had things gone according to plan. 

The other saving grace was the lounge access I have on one of my credit cards, which I have been trying to decide the value of, but you can't put a monetary value on the ease of being able to hang in the lounge with food and WiFi and drinks and a nearby toilet while the world is going crazy outside. It's the rough times that show you who your real friends are and what things have more emotional value than you may have realized before. So, without further ado, here's January in a nutshell. 

Please copy and paste the questions at the end and add your answers to the mix! 

Where was I? Taiwan


1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 

January: Devouring the Sweet Potato

Taiwan is known as "the Sweet Potato" apparently due to its shape, and/or the fact that sweet potato plants are resilient, as are the Taiwanese people. In January, I rode around the entire island, mostly around the edge, eating my way around each city one by one. 

2. What did you learn last month? 

I learned that Taiwan is called the Sweet Potato. I learned that dragon fruits are a cactus looking plant. I learned that I don't really like asparagus juice but I love milk tea. I learned that the kanji for "cold" looks kind of like a puppy dog to me. Woof.

3. What was the weather like where you are? 

It was quite nice! Mostly around the 70s f / 20-25 C but sometimes a bit cooler, and a few days of rain and high humidity. However, mostly pretty darn good! 

4. What event last month was your favorite?

It's hard to say but I did enjoy the night markets in Kaohsiung, as well as a hike I did there, which I found randomly but really enjoyed! 

Kaohsiung Liuhe Night Market

5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? I got off to a a rough start and did not finish my first book until January 11th, but due to the bike ride, which meant LOTS of audiobook time, I caught up on my reading goals a bit and there were some good ones! However, none of them WOWED me, but I think my mood is just not in a "wow" mood right now, so I gave no 5 star reviews in January.

Book: Homeseeking by Karissa Chen, which I started during the cruise in late November, but finally came back to and finished, and am glad that I did. 

Movie/Show: I binged the last few episodes of Grey's Anatomy. I know its basically a soap opera, but what can I say, I still enjoy it after all these years. 

Podcast: Lives Less Ordinary on the BBC, where real people tell interesting tales, like this one, where a man accidentally finds his birth mother in his local bakery

6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

I got attacked by a monkey! I was in the Taroko gorge and I had just ridden up to a little village and I sat down to have a drink and a snack and before I knew it, a monkey was running up to me. I stood up to get away and he hopped up onto me and tried to get my food. For some reason, I resisted, as if saving my food was important, and he went away. However, two minutes later he was back, and I put my food behind my back to keep it away from  him and a different monkey came out of nowhere from behind and snatched it right out of my hand. It scared the bejeezus out of me and I screamed like a little girl! 

This is not the monkey that attacked me, but it is the same type.
(Formosan Rock Macaque) 

The funny (?) thing also is that I just watched Outbreak a few days before that and after the monkey took my food, I thought about how lucky I was that he had not bitten me or something! There is a scene in the movie where a little girl is feeding apples to the diseased monkey and it puts you on the edge of your seat, I tell you! 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

I am looking forward to the Lunar New Year, and to settling in a bit in one place, to going to a couple of meetups, finding some good hiking trails and eating more great food! 

Your turn! To copy/paste, highlight the text below and click CTRL-C, then put the cursor in the comment box and click CTRL-V.

JANUARY:

1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that?
2. What did you learn last month?
3. What was the weather like where you are?
4. What event last month was your favorite?
5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? 
6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

FEBRUARY: 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

Bonus question! What is the longest amount of time that you have ever spent in an airport? 

1.25.2026

Twenty Questions (E14): Dear 20 Year Old Self

I am sure you have looked back at your life at some point and thought, "why didn't I do that differently?" I am not saying that you regret it, but maybe you see how young you were at the time and you want to give your 20 year old self a little advice. I polled readers about this and today I am going to give their answers along with some of my own. My question to you is...what advice would YOU give your 20 year old self if you could? And do you think your 20 year old self would take it? 

1. Lisa said: Worry less. Enjoy having complete control over your time. 

2. Ernie said: Chill out- it’ll all work out. Family can be the friends you choose to surround yourself with. And maybe select a career path or look into getting another degree so you have a fall back plan. 
 
3. Melissa said: People won't think less of you if you get things wrong some of the time.

4.  Diane said: I think it would be "Keep doing what you're doing."  Also - "Save for retirement." 

5. Nance said: Please relax and don't be so hard on yourself.

6. Tobia said: Love your body. Enjoy being young. 

7. San said: Stop trying to please other people, you can't please everyone.

8. Stephany said: Start an emergency savings account, even if you can only put $10 a month in it!

9. Kat said: Go to a different grad school, probably closer to home! I went to one several states away in a city where I knew no one and it just wasn’t the right choice for me at the age of 21. I floundered! And that affected my confidence and trajectory for a long time, unfortunately. 

10. Suzanne said: Connection is the source of so much joy and comfort. You will never regret nourishing the relationships with people in your life. 

11. Nicole said: Go for it!

12. Elisabeth said: You're not doing anything wrong. This feels hard because it is hard. 

Thanks ladies! These are all solid pieces of advice! I am still trying to follow some of them even now! Here are a few that I would tell my 20 year old self. 

Australia - Great Ocean Road
(with a real camera!)

13. Reach higher than you think you can. Despite being a know it all sometimes, I lacked confidence in myself in certain things. I applied for colleges partially for financial reasons, but I should have found what I wanted (Berkeley) and figured out what I needed to do to get there. Ironically I had really good grades and may have even gotten in, but at 17, I did not think so. And even at 20 I probably did not try hard enough to get what I actually wanted. 

14. Be more appreciative. I was always a polite child, but there have been some people in my life who have gone out of their way to do things for me, and I am not sure that I properly was thankful to them at the time. 

15. Call your mother! I have always had a good relationship with my Mom (she may beg to differ re my teenage years!) and I did have regular contact with her in college, but I am sure that no matter what day it was, or time it was, she would have been happy to hear from me more. I can't imagine what it is like to have a person you are used to seeing every day, who has been living in your house, who you have been responsible for for so long, suddenly be miles away, doing their own thing, not "needing" you. It is probably hard, and I did not recognize that then. 

16. You are beautiful. I used to wear a t-shirt over my swimming suit at the beach. I was embarrassed of my body, of people seeing it. I did get over that slowly, but I never considered myself good looking and always felt there were things that could be improved. I have gotten used to myself, and am happy to have strong legs and a nice smile, but back in my 20s, I did not appreciate my body. I see teenage girls even now talking about how they need to go on a diet, and it makes me sad. They are beautiful too, and I wish they could see what I see. 

17. Being right is not that important. I agree with Melissa. We all make mistakes; that is what makes us human. My way is not always the right way, and being wrong or doing something wrong is not the end of the world! However, some of the mistakes I have made have helped me learn, so I guess in some part, we have to go through each of the steps to get to the end. 

18. The world is huge; go out and explore it! I think 20 year old me would like this piece of advice. But I don't just mean go somewhere and party and act like a loud American. I mean see it, and learn from it, and be part of it. 

19. Be more patient. I am not patient. This is one I am still working on. But perhaps if I learned to be more patient when I was 20, I would be more patient now! I like to have a purpose or a goal. I walk fast; I like to get things done in a timely manner; I hate waiting for things, or people. However, in the last several years, I have learned the joy of a good book, or just staring at the sea from time to time, or sitting with a coffee just because. 

20. Keep a journal. I do have a lot of things written down, and I have kept some sort of written record (or verbal sometimes) of things, but I do sometimes wish I had more information about certain times of my life. I am often very factual in my records, but I wish I could remember more about my emotions at certain times. My Mom and Grandma are and were very good at this, but I could do better! 

So there you have it; now it is your turn! Which one of the above pieces of advice resonates with you the most? What would you tell your 20 year old self if you could, and do you think your 20 year old self would take the advice?