6.30.2025

Looking Back: Books

You are going to laugh at this. In my mind, I was thinking, okay it's time for my quarterly book post, since the last time I did it was in the first quarter. Then I went back to find the last one, as I generally use the template to create the new one, and the last time I did a quarterly book post was the first quarter of 2024! Oopsie. So yeah, I guess time flies..? So I am going to do Q1 and Q2 together, I guess! Since this is 2025, I am going to give you...2 books I gave 0 stars (DNFed), 2 books I absolutely loved (5 stars) and 5 books that I did not give five stars but are definitely worth a read. So 2-0-2-5, (+5?) kind of! I am not going to divulge all the books I have given five stars yet, as that will in the year end wrap up! Stay tuned! 

Before I start, speaking of five star reads, last month I put the new TJR on hold!!! She has been consistently good (except that I don't love her older stuff as much, but everyone has to start somewhere) and I am looking forward to seeing what this new book brings! However, I am number 57 in line with 96 people waiting per copy so we will see how it goes! Hopefully my library gets more copies! 


Recommend! (5 stars): It is hard to pick just two really, but like I said, at the end of the year I will tell you all of them, so for now I will arbitrarily pick two! For fun, I will try to give you two that I have not heard many people talk about lately, so hopefully you will have not read these yet.

By Any Other Name by Jodi Picoult. Her books are sometimes a little over the top, but this one I enjoyed. I actually started it when I was riding my bike to Elisabeth's house, then my loan ran out and I waited around 12 more weeks before I could get it again and finish it! It is the story of the woman who was the real author of Shakespeare's plays, and a modern day woman who has written a screenplay about her. I found it fun. It also is based on an actual theory that Shakespeare was not the true author of the plays he was famous for. Picoult does a good job researching her subjects, and a good job portraying her stories, and this book was no exception. It got mixed reviews on GR, but I enjoyed it. 

Look Closer by David Ellis. I read this book in one day. I was going to do all the things, and then I started it and then I could not put it down, and I got none of the things done. It was exactly what I needed after reading a few meh books in a row. It is a thriller about a couple who seem normal at first, but the more you read, the deeper the tale goes and before you know it, you can't really tell which way is up. The cops get involved and there is money, revenge and emotional distress. I loved it. Recommended by Stephany (thanks!)

Still great! (4 stars): Once again, I will try to touch on a few that you may not have heard of as much on the interwebs lately. Four stars is actually my most common rating so far this year, despite the fact that if you asked me, I probably would have guessed it to be three. Here are a few good ones! 

Leviathon Wakes by James Comey. I feel like this is something Jenny would like, as it is a bit like Ender's Game in a way. This is the first of nine (?) books in the Expanse series, and just like the Picoult book, I started it in the middle of 2024, but either wasn't in the mood or my hold lapsed, and you may recall, I had it on a list of "should I ditch these currently reading books" at the end of the year last year. I did not ditch it because I have several friends of different walks of life who have really enjoyed the series, and I am glad I stuck with it, as it was fun. It is the story of a battle in space, topped with a bit of romance and friendship. This is not my usual genre, but I have put book two on hold! 

Firekeeper's Daughter by Angeline Boulley. This is a story about a teenager in the Ojibwe tribe, and covers some of the strife between the people on the reservation and the nearby town, and of being a teenager in general. The main character Daunis finds friendship in a hockey player friend of her brothers, but then finds out that he is not all that he was cracked up to be after she witnesses a murder and sees how he reacts. 

Wish You Well by David Balducci. I guess this author normally writes legal thrillers, but I have never read one. However, this is a coming of age novel about a girl from 1940s Manhattan whose family tragedy forces her and her younger brother to move to a small coal mining town in Virginia to live with their grandmother. The lessons they learn about life, love and friendship in the small town are priceless. I think normal Balducci fans, and some others, really did not like it, but I enjoyed it. 

All The Colors of the Dark by Chris Whitaker. This is a cross between a missing person/murder mystery with elements of phycological thriller, coming of age and love (and obsession). It is the story of a young boy and girl and a small town. One day, the boy, Patch, saves a popular girl from a bad man but in doing so, gets captured himself. The search for him is lengthy and in the end, becomes bigger than you would ever imagine. If you like this, you may also like his other book, We Begin at the End, which I preferred over this. 

The Island of Missing Trees by Elif Shafak. If you are looking for books from non American writers, this is a good one to try. The author is Turkish, and she writes beautifully. This book is about a talking tree (no, not like the Ents in the Lord of the Rings), love, and loss. Set in both Cypress and London, it is a beautifully written tale of a Greek Cypriot falling in love with a Turkish Cypriot during the time when this was forbidden. They have to meet in secret, in a tavern, under the branches of a fig tree. When war breaks out, people flee the island, but one person brings a branch of the tree to London, where it survives. Years later, the girl living there does not understand what this tree has been through, but as the tale progresses she learns more of its (and her own) story. 

Don't bother! (0 stars): 

Chaos Monkeys by Antonio Garcia Martinez. This book was actually so bad that I gave it one star, because I don't know if the zero stars go into the overall average and I wanted to make sure that my vote counted. In addition, I even wrote a review, which I rarely do. Here is what I said: Do not waste your time with this book. Whatever good information or insights the author may have had were drowned in his ego, entitlement and narcissistic manner. I nearly DNFed the book around the 5% mark when he started reminding me of all the finance bros I used to work with, but I carried on, thinking maybe it was a phase, but it was not. I thought I would check the GR reviews to see if they were so good that I should reconsider, but they were not, and laughably, the author rebuts several of the poor reviews in a very condescending manner, which seems pretty much on point. I finally DNFed for good at 22%.

Challenger by Adam Higgenbotham. I wanted to like this book; I wanted to learn more about this time period and situation. However, the description, the definitive, dramatic, minute-by-minute story of the Challenger disaster based on new archival research and in-depth reporting, is pretty much spot on. It is IN DEPTH, and it is minute by minute, and I tried to concentrate on it but I just could not. Maybe some other time, but I was not in the mood for that much detail and fact. 

Have you read any of these books and if so, what did you think? What was your favorite book in June? What was your favorite book so far this year? 

6.23.2025

Our Small World

If you know me, you know that I am not one to discuss politics. I think it was Elisabeth that said that this was not good small talk, and I agree. Why would you bring this up in a group that you are not familiar with, and especially when we (by we I mean the US) are currently in a climate that is less than stellar?

However, I have been in an area with some political things happening lately! In Georgia, the country, not the state, you may or may not know that they have been having protests lately. I actually got a notice from the US State Department warning me of this and I did look into it to see if this was something that should keep me from traveling there, but it is not currently a dangerous situation. However, I want to say clearly that the US State Department is in the business of covering their donkeys, and often ramp up the warnings at the slightest provocation. I have been to several countries where they have had some sort of warning against traveling there, and I have been totally fine. 

Ilia State University, Tbilisi

Currently Georgia is on the Level 1, "exercise normal precaution" list, which is the top (best) one. However, Türkiye, where I just was, is on the "exercise increased caution" list, as is the UK FYI. And my favorite, Columbia, is on the "reconsider travel with higher security risk areas to avoid" list and several parts of Mexico are on the "do not travel" list. You can find the current travel advisory map here. Obviously Russia is on the "do not travel list." 

Current map (June 2025)

So I have some things to say about Russia. Firstly, the other day I was 3.7 km (2.3 miles) away from the border, which is the closest I have ever been to Russia. In addition, there are two parts of Georgia that are still occupied by Russia. I have been around a lot of Russians lately, as the countries that they can travel to at the moment are few, and also the proximity to Russia to where I have been is close. So that brings me to these questions. Do you know the details of the situation between Russia and Georgia? Or any of the other former USSR countries? 

There is a large mountain in between

FYI, creepy shirtless guy took this photo for me. :)

Or what about the history of Yugoslavia? Do you remember hearing about Serbia and Bosnia and Kosovo  on the news? Did you know that it was only in the aughts that some of them broke free from the regime (Serbia and Montenegro did not dissolve until 2006!)? That area has had a lot of conflict. I was in Albania in 2010 and the host at my lodging in Saranda was talking about the recent civil wars. Did you know that they were warring as recently as the late 90s, basically just over 10 years before the time that I was there (PS it was probably on the "do not travel" list at that point!)? 

All of these things make me realize how small my world really is, all of the things I have not learned, things I do not know, and people whose stories I have not heard. And the more I travel, the more I realize this. When I was in Türkiye, I went to a ruined town called Ani, which sits right on the current border with Armenia. I could look across the river and wave at the Armenian side. However, this land was at one point part of western Armenia, and they had their own dialect, and the town of Ani was a strategic trading hub for them. Currently, you cannot cross the border from Türkiye to Armenia by land, as the relations between the two countries are not great.

I later went to Armenia and learned a lot more about the history there, but also, while I was there I had a conversation with a woman from Iran about the current situation and how she had to travel over land for 24 hours to get a flight from Yerevan (the capital city of Armenia) because all flights from Iran (in and out) have been canceled. There were many Iranians seeking refuge in Armenia when I was there (you can read more about it here), and once again, this made my world, and all of my "problems" seem small. 

I will not talk about being on one side or the other, or believing in one political thing or another. What I believe in is the importance keeping our minds open to learning new things, and listening to the people who are living through or have lived through things that I cannot even imagine. As I have mentioned once or twice, I also believe that people are inherently good, and I refuse to believe that all of one group is bad just because there is a bad apple in the bunch. Lastly, I will once again say how grateful I am that I am happy and healthy, have clean drinking water and a toilet, and that I am able to travel and learn more and more every day. 

Are you well versed in world history? Have you spoken to anyone who has been through any of these conflicts? Would you travel to a country bordering Russia right now? What was the last thing you learned that you thought, "wow, why didn't I know more about this already?"

6.16.2025

Living Out of a 40 Liter Backpack

The last time I did a packing round up was when I was still carrying everything with me on my bike and that was extreme! Now, as you know, I am traveling abroad for a year, and so I thought it was time to do an update! (also Birchie's post the other day where she asked if anyone had packing posts reminded me that I have had this one in my drafts since March! Oops.) As you know, I am a carry on only type of gal, and also prefer a backpack to a rolling suitcase for ease of maneuvering up/down stairs, over cobblestones and using small forms of transportation (crowded minibuses with no luggage storage means I have to put my bags on my lap sometimes). 

All packed and ready to go

Everything that is inside the bag

Let's talk about the weather. Since I was going to be in the northern hemisphere for the entire year, I pretty much needed clothes for every season. Also, I planned on doing some hiking, so I would also need to pack clothing appropriate for this, as well as some equipment for this too. This also meant that I would need to have a vessel to carry my hiking gear. So, although it is not the most practical for when I am not hiking, I opted to carry my hiking backpack as my carry on for this trip. For those of you who have been here for a while, this is also the same pack that I used as my rear rack pack when cycling last year. I will get into this more in a minute.

I also knew that I would have downtime and I did not want to be doing everything on my phone, so I am carrying my laptop with me, along with various camera gear. This meant that my personal item would have to fit my laptop, and luckily I have a huge purse that actually fits my laptop in it (I have a 16 inch screen)! Inside this purse, when I am traveling, I also put the following: pashmina (doubles as scarf, headscarf, blanket, pillow), electronics (charger, Kindle, cables, battery bank, camera, phone), empty water bottle and puffy jacket (no matter what season it is; sometimes the plane/train/bus is cold). Also in winter, I put my umbrella, gloves and beanie in here too. 

Laptop fits!

Personal Item

Wintertime contents of my purse
(plus laptop, minus fanny pack)

I also carry my trusty fanny pack with me everywhere, and in it I put (did you ever play that game? I packed my bag and in it I put...?) the following items: passport, headphones, wallet with ID, credit card, ATM card and small amount of cash, ChapStick, and floss pick (never leave home without it).

I am all about the layering system. What does this mean? This means that I basically have one of every layer, plus extras of some of them. But you don't want to hear about it; I will show you! 

Ready for every season

As you can see from above, I have a top for everything. Actually I have more than one, so let's break it down. 

Tank tops (plus the one worn in the photo)

Tank tops: Five. I believe that more lower level layers is better and it gives you a chance to have a variety when it is hot out, plus have more clean shirts when it is hot, and you are probably sweating more. Two of them are merino wool, including the one shown in the main layering photo above. 

Short sleeved shirts

Short-sleeved shirts: Two. In this case, one is a strictly running shirt and the other is a merino wool shirt that could be used as a out and about shirt except that I used it for backpacking and it is now permanently grey (not a good look) so it is now actually only an active shirt as well. Bottom line: I need a new "out and about" short-sleeved shirt.

Long-sleeved shirts: Two. Pictured above. One sweater (merino wool), and one zip-up hoodie (Uniqlo), which can be used as an out and about shirt or an active shirt, as it technically is a sunscreen hoodie, but is black so is a little more versatile. However, this one too is also on it's last legs (I also wore it the entire year last year while cycling, so I am surprised it has lasted this long to be honest. Uniqlo for the win! Well worth the $30 price tag!) 

Jackets: Three. Pictured above. The windbreaker is a great light layer that packs up into itself and is easy to carry around when its in the 40-60s just in case. The puffy, as I mentioned, goes everywhere with me, stays in my purse or daypack, and is a great pillow, extra layer on the plane, or emergency layer and I also take it with me backpacking. The rain jacket is mostly for backpacking, but when I was in France and it was below freezing outside I wore it when I went for runs. Its not the most attractive thing, but it does the job. If I had my way, it would be black, but that was not an option for this model. 

Pants: Four. Jeans (shown above), capri pants for either active days or travel days, jogging pants for lounging around, or going outside when you are lazy (if you are in Poland, but not when you are in France) and rain pants for hiking mostly, but hey if it was really cold I guess I could wear them outside! Also when I was in Germany in December/January, I did wear my capris under my jeans as an extra layer. Aside from the jeans, the rest are all black. 

Pants/shorts (jeans not shown)

Shorts: Three. I have one pair of "going out" shorts, one pair of running shorts, and one pair of lounging/pajama shorts. To be honest, I have rarely used the latter, but they take up basically no space. 

Undergarments: Four undies, four socks, one sports bra and one regular bra. I normally am fine with having two pairs of undies and handwashing, but this time I decided to splurge and bring more so that I don't have to handwash as often. Same goes for the socks, especially when I am in one place for a few weeks or so, it is really easy to just wash and hang each evening (especially for my favorite pair of Darn Tough socks, which are also merino). However, sometimes there is not enough time to dry in one day if you are moving faster, so this way I have a little leeway. As far as bras go, the tank in the photo above has a built in bra, so I can wear that when I need to wash my sports bra. To be honest, I have not worn the regular bra yet. 

Packed! Still have a bit of room!

Accessories: Beanie, pashmina (can be worn in churches, or used as a scarf, skirt or blanket), gloves (all black), running hat, buff, umbrella, sunglasses, and a swimsuit that I have barely used (one time so far in six months! What can I say, I like to swim in the buff. Just kidding!! Haha. I usually just swim in my running clothes/sports bra). 

Toiletries: My rule about toiletries is that you can always buy it where you are going if you need it, so I don't bring a lot. Also I don't really wear makeup, or care what brand of this-or-that that I use, and I don't really need to condition my hair. Here is what I do bring: 

Liquids

Liquid: contacts, contact solution, hand sanitizer, mascara, Vaseline (mostly for running/hiking chafe issues), sunscreen, extra ChapStick. 

Non-liquids
Non-liquids - packed

Non-liquid: Shampoo/conditioner bar, soap bar, toothpaste tabs (now all gone, so I am back to regular toothpaste), toothbrush, floss picks, fingernail clippers, glasses, dry wet wipes, feminine supplies, TP (must have in some countries!), brush, earplugs, pills, laundry sheets, razor + extra blades, q-tips, hair ties, sewing kit, facemask. 

For toiletries, I usually just keep them separate and keep the liquids handy when I am flying, but they both do fit in the one Lermende bag if needed. Also, I have a little reusable zip-up baggie (the blue one under the sanitizing wipe) that I will put my "essential" items in if I am traveling by train or staying in a place with a shared bathroom (toothpaste, toothbrush, contacts, shampoo/soap, earplugs) so that way I just have one essential bag to keep handy. Also, as a side note, in the last year, I have stayed at literally well over a hundred different places, and there have probably been about three of them that have not had soap and/or shampoo.

Electronics: Kindle, battery bank, adapter/converter, cords, running watch, GoPro, phone, headlamp/Inreach for hiking.

I also have these essentials: Osprey 18L foldable daypack (seriously, I have gotten so much use out of this bag!), Chico bag, my Solomon running hydration vest 2L. What can I say; I like bags! 

Foldable backpack

Shoes: Two. One pair of flip flops and one pair of running shoes. No fancy shoes. If I need to go somewhere fancy, I will buy something to wear. Until then, I will wear my running shoes. 

Camping Specific Gear: I also carry these camping items which will be of no use to anyone else most likely: sleeping mat, sleep sac (actually, even if you stay in huts or hostels, this comes in handy), water filter, stove, emergency items (first aid kit, lighter, headlamp, Garmin Inreach satellite tracker, athletic tape, duct tape and various other items). I also acquired a pot/bowl/cutlery set and a sleeping bag when I was in Türkiye and I can fit it all into the carry on but I have not had to fly with these last two things yet. 

Guilty pleasure and/or random stuff. I do carry a few extra ziplock bags with me just in case. I like to keep my passport in one and have one extra that I have in case I need to toss my phone in there. I will also snag a lotion or a shampoo if I stay in a hotel, but if I am flying and I need to cut weight, those are the first to go. 

I basically wear my heaviest item on the plane, which means: jeans, tank top, sweater, running shoes, socks, and zip-up hoodie. 

Are you a carry-on only person? Backpack or rolling suitcase? What is your guilty pleasure? 

6.09.2025

The Bane of My Existence E1: Communication Apps

So many apps!

I am titling this part one because there are a lot of things that fall into this category! When I am cycling or hiking, it is rain for instance. However, I am not here to talk about rain today. A while back, Rachel did a post about her screen time, and my comment was so long and I still had more to say, so I thought I would do a post about it as well. 

I won't quote my own comment verbatim; you can go and read it if you want. However, here is the short of it. On the day of my comment I had 2 hours and 10 minutes of screen time. 31 mins of that was camera use, as I was at a UNESCO site and I took a lot of photos, 33 mins was YT, as I watched one video before going to bed, much of the other time was split between audiobooks and podcasts and 13 minutes was $%^&*# WhatsApp, which is what I want to talk about. I also had 59 notifications from WhatsApp that day, and spoiler alert, this is only from chats that I have not muted!

Many people have asked me how I meet people while traveling. Luckily there are a few ways; one is Meetup.com, which usually consists of a once a week organized meetup of some sort. The next one is FB groups; this can be expat groups or local hiking groups or general travel groups. But usually, each of these groups also has an associated WhatsApp group chat, and this is a very common way to organize meet ups. 

In addition to the groups, many international people use WhatsApp to communicate, since it is free to send a "text" from one international number to another, which may not be the case with your regular text message platform. Also, many businesses use this, which is great because just like with the other travelers, this is free to communicate and makes it much easier to make a reservation or call a business if you need something. 

So, it can be a good thing for sure. However, weeding through the chatter to get to the things that are actually important to me is not always easy. Most of the expat groups have a lot going on, such as questions like where to buy a dresser or find a hairdresser who speaks English, or where the party is tonight, and there are often chats 24/7, and videos of last night's shenanigans. I definitely keep these big groups muted, but I still have to check them from time to time to see if there is anything useful there. 

Most of the time there will be a side chat for certain activities, but these can be a lot too! I joined a hiking side chat and in the 48 hours it was live there were 117 chats, including 234 photos and who knows how many likes and hearts and thumbs ups! That is 59 notifications a day right there!

Additionally, depending on where you are, there is also FB messenger communication; there is an app like WhatsApp called Telegram (there is also one called Signal) and there are even Slack group chats. If you want to know about expat events, you may also have to check Instagram, Facebook or a specific webpage to keep up. Of course if I want to try to get involved, I have to do a complete 180 from my normal style, which was to ignore everything, and now I either have to have things binging and buzzing all day long and/or I have to go in and check 17 different sites to find out what is happening. 

Unfortunately, for travel, unless you want to sit in a vacuum by yourself, you have to check these apps and use them to communicate, but I hate it. I generally have all notifications off on my phone except for my regular text messenger and my Google chat, which is where my family communicates. Otherwise, I will go and check certain things a few times a week and respond as needed. However, now I kind of have to have more of them turned on or I could miss stuff, but I really don't like it. I still (stubbornly) keep a lot of the notifications off but then I have to either be sure to purposefully check or I sometimes miss things. 

Did I also mention that any time you book a tour or any activity, there are several more WhatsApp notices with the same information that was already in the original email and then follow up chats about reviews (in addition to the ones in my email)? Sigh. 

However, I do wonder why the US has not yet really adopted these channels, and when I had to get in touch with customer service to AMEX about a travel related issue (so, yes, I am not in the US), I had to make a real live phone call! So, I guess in the end, I would rather put up with the WhatsApp etc. than have to pay extra to make a simple phone call in the year 2025. 

But wait, I am not done with this rant yet. Can I tell you how annoyed I get when people just text the word "hello" and then nothing else? Or when you text them with a very long explanation and/or question and they return text only one word or an answer to only one of the five questions you asked? Or instead of texting one paragraph, they text five separate texts with a sentence each, which means, you guessed it, you get five notifications! This seems to be very prevalent in Türkiye. I am not saying that there are not people in the US that do it; there are! However, just get to the point people! 

Shopping for a new phone in France

So what is the point of this rant? When you are traveling, you really can't live without a smartphone. I mean, you could, but life would be a lot harder. So as much as I try to ignore it, I need it. I really don't want to go back to paper maps and phone cards, and I am pretty happy with the fact that I can land in a new city and make connections so quickly, but sometimes I wish I could just turn the dang thing off for a long, long time. 

P.S. I wrote the first part of this post back in April when Rachel wrote her original one, so I thought it would be fun to check again to see what my usage was yesterday. 

Saturday June 7th

Screen time: 2 hours, 2 mins. 

Clock 20 mins (I used the timer)
AOL 19 mins (I decided to unsubscribe and archive a bunch of emails - this is an old email address with a lot of junk)
Goodreads 12 mins
FB 11 mins (travel groups)
Chrome 10 mins
Telegram 8 mins (travel group)

Notifications: 69. Mostly from:
Clock (not sure why)
Messages (texts)
WhatsApp
Chat

Unlocks: 22

Bottom line: it is not really much different than April! 

Your turn! I have questions for you! 

1. What are your phone stats (how many times do you unlock? How much screen time do you have in a day? How many notifications do you get per day)? 
2. What is one app you cannot do without? 
3. What app that you need/have to use most annoys you? 
4. How do you feel about people who either do one word texts OR really long ones?
5. Which of the apps in the photo above do you use to communicate? 

6.02.2025

What I Learned & Looking Back & Looking Forward: May 2025

Is it just me, or did May just zoom by? I felt like it did! Maybe because it is my favorite month? Maybe because I was doing stuff, literally moving from one place to the next nearly every day? Whatever it was, it went by fast. Oh and also, April showers DID bring May flowers, as I saw so many wildflowers! It was awesome. 

Where was I? Türkiye and Georgia.

What about you? Please copy and paste the questions at the end and add your answers to the mix! 

1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 

January: Baguettes and Many Steps
February: In Like Minnesota; Out Like Hawaii
March: Wet and Wild
April: My Life is in Ruins, and Beaches Too
May: Al Fresco 

(in reference to both being outside and also seeing a lot of art!)

2. What did you learn last month? 

I learned a lot about the Hittites, the Christians and the Ottomans and how the lands in this part of the world were fought over. I was really fascinated by the caves in Cappadocia and the history of the Christians hiding in them, as well as the takeover by the Ottomans and the subsequent years after that. Some of the ruins or structures are BC (like Hieropolis, shown below) and that just blows my mind. I really am in the cradle of civilization and it is all so interesting! However, I did not even visit some of the oldest sites, like Göbekli Tepe, which is said to have been inhabited from around 9,500 BC! Woof! I still have so many places on my list to visit and learn about, like additional places in Türkiye, places like Israel and Jordan and...oh man, the list goes on and on and on! 

Ani, Türkiye 

3. What was the weather like where you are? 

It has been great for the most part. The last few days of the month were rainy, but I will take it! Being outside most of the time (hiking) has been great, sunny, and I even got a bit of a sunburn on a couple of the days (I put cream on, I swear!) 

This shirt is for sun protection, not cold

4. What event last month was your favorite?

I had a few extra days and I decided to go to a small town in the Caucasian mountains and I am so glad that I did and I could have easily stayed for another week; it was so beautiful and the people were nice, and the food was good, and I could hike right from my doorstep. It was perfect. (see photo above)

5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month?  

I am going to tell this in book, movie/show, podcast format. 

Book: I had a lot of fours, but no five stars, but I did enjoy The Firekeepers Daughter, The Drums of Autumn (4th Outlander, although not as good as the first one), and The Island of Missing Trees. 

Movie/Show: N/A, again! But I watched a lot of nice sunrises! 

Obligatory horse and balloon sunrise photo

Podcast: I have been trying to listen to the news in French or Spanish at least once a week, but I am failing miserably. I just don't have the patience to really concentrate that hard at the moment. 

6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

I don't know if this is funny, or just weird, but I was hiking to a glacier and as I was walking on a road leading up to the trailhead, there was a dude on a bike with no shirt on who would pass me, and then he would stop and do exercises, and then I would pass him, and then he would pass me, and then he would stop and I would pass him. Anyway, eventually I got to the trail and he and I were still leapfrogging (he was now off of his bike) and so we said hello and introduced ourselves. 

Bike guy

Well then he decided that (a) we were friends, (b) I wanted to hear all about him and (c) I must need him to tell me where to go and to help me find the best path. It turns out he was 27 and was a guide who had horses and hiked these trails all the time. Anyway, he was kind of annoying, as I just wanted to take photos and stop and look at stuff and he was adamant that he knew the best way, the best photo ops, the best trail and what I should be doing etc. Long story short, I finally shook him and almost felt like hiding and waiting for him to pass me so I could mosey along on my own. 

Fast forward to two days later, I get off a minibus on the outskirts of another town and I ask a German woman if she wants to share a ride into town. She does, and we get to talking about what we had done in the prior town, and she told me she hiked to the glacier, and I told her that I had too and I told her about this guy who kind of wouldn't leave me alone. She said that when she was there, there was a weird shirtless guy doing pushups who started talking to her, and we realized it was the same dude, and this must be his MO, going every day to the trail and picking up on random foreign women. Anyway, he was 0/2 in this case! 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

After moving around a lot (hiking for over two weeks, then pretty much staying in one place only a couple or few days at a time, and being on a lot of buses, trains and minivans), I am once again ready for an extended amount of time in one place. I have a list of (boring, admin, adult) things to do that I have been putting off, because I like to time block and my time has been a little erratic lately. Listen, I know I could have done paperwork instead of hiking, but my sanity depends on my getting fresh air and exercise, so I am not going to sacrifice that! I think June will have a nice mix of city time, nature time, excursions, errands/chores/admin stuff and downtime. Bring it on. 

MAY:
1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 
2. What did you learn last month? 
3. What was the weather like where you are? 
4. What event last month was your favorite?
5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month?  
6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

JUNE: 
7. What are you looking forward to this month?

Bonus question! Where/when was your best sunrise/sunset? 

5.26.2025

Never Have I....Wait, Actually I Have! (2)

Happy Memorial Day to my US friends! The last rendition of this post got not one, but TWO of my long time lurkers to come out of the blog commenting closet and join in, so I thought that I may as well do it again and see what happens! To be fair, one of them (Hi Mr. B!) has commented before, but the other (Hi Funky Bunch!) was a TS virgin before this. Maybe I can get Bugsy and G-Money to chime in this time...

By the way, I was very happy to find out last time that I am not the only one who wets my pants from time to time. I am sure it will only be getting worse, not better, as time goes by, and I am glad to have company! 

Without further ado, here are some things that I have never done in my life. Let me know in the comments, have you ever done these things? 

1. Gotten a tattoo [Let me tell you, my parents were not happy!]

2. Been fly fishing [If you have never done this, I recommend it. It is very meditative and not boring at all!]

3. Seen an alligator [I've nearly stepped on one too]

My next door neighbor in Gainesville

4. Had a pet lizard [Bearded Dragons]

5. Smoked a cigarette [It was in my experimental days and I would not want to do it now]

6. Ridden on a subway [so many times!]

Antalya

7. Seen an elephant in the wild (aka not in a zoo) [Thailand, Malaysia (pigmies! They were so cute!), Africa]

Pigmy elephants are still pretty large!

8. Dated someone from a different country than I am from [actually several...and you thought I was boring!]

9. Ridden in an 18 wheeler [Africa]

10. Read two books at the same time [Nowadays I nearly am always listening to one and reading one]

11. Been on TV [after the Boston marathon bombing, I got interviewed on our local news station!]

2013 Boston Strong run organized by the Pavement Runner

12. Been to the doctor/hospital in a foreign country [Ug. Several...Mexico, Uruguay, France, Türkiye (surgery even!)...I think that is it! Does getting a COVID swab in Austria count?]

Luckily I did not need this one

13. Sang karaoke in a bar [Many times. My go to was usually a Grease related duet with a friend of mine, and I was always John Travolta, because you know why? Because I got chills, and they're multiplying!] 

[Actually, funny story, a friend of mine had one of those karaoke microphones that you plug into the TV and we had hotel security called on us because we were doing karaoke in my room, in the French Quarter of New Orleans no less, which is kind of known for its rowdy characters!]

Tell me, which of these have you done? Feel free to elaborate! (Copy and paste by highlighting below and clicking CTRL-C, the click CTRL-V in the comment box.) 

1. Gotten a tattoo
2. Been fly fishing
3. Seen an alligator
4. Had a pet lizard
5. Smoked a cigarette
6. Ridden on a subway
7. Seen an elephant in the wild (aka not in a zoo)
8. Dated someone from a different country than you are from
9. Ridden in an 18 wheeler (bonus points if you have driven one!)
10. Read two books at the same time
11. Been on TV
12. Been to the doctor/hospital in a foreign country
13. Sang karaoke in a bar (and if so, what song is your go-to?)

5.19.2025

It's All in the Comments (and Other Randoms)

Do you ever read a blog post and it's good, but then you start reading the comments afterwards and before you know it, a half an hour has passed by because the comments are just as, or sometimes more, entertaining than the post itself? I recently had this happen and I thought it would be funny to respond to the comments here. The original post was written by Birchie and can be found here. Funny enough, it was about state flags which is interesting enough, but sometimes people add side notes, and that is what I wanted to touch on. 

For example, Nance brought up that the Ohio flag was the only one shaped like a pennant and apparently is a bitch to fold (like fitted sheets, she said). I remember having to fold the US flag for my Mom, who was a postmaster, and you would be in some deep doodoo if it touched the floor, because then we were supposed to burn it. But it had to be in perfect triangles, like a folded note from high school. Are you old enough to remember passing notes in HS, and folding them like a US flag? If so, big hug to you! 

Nance also said (sorry to out you Nance!) that the Ohio State flag would be improved if a nipple was added, which Birchie had talked about as a controversy to the Virginia flag (which I never had heard about. Side note, who remembers the Janet Jackson half time incident!??) I mean, wouldn't every flag be enhanced by adding a nipple? On the CA flag, it would be on the bear, I imagine, as a random floating nipple would just be weird. I did go and look at the Virginia flag and I see no issue with the nipple, I feel that it is quite tasteful. Of course, it is also quite tasteful on the bear. 

Made by Gemini; not the real CA flag😁

MG talked about the Montana flag and how there are words in Spanish on it, and she wondered why. I am guessing that since the state name itself is a Spanish word, that may have something to do with it? Without Google, that is my guess. Can anyone name all of the states in the US that are Spanish words?? Ready? GO!

Engie mentioned a dude with a podcast about flags whose name is Roman Mars and I need to know: is that really his real name?! Actually, did you know that you can tell the difference between Greek gods and Roman ones because the Roman ones all have planet names!? So Neptune = Roman and Poseidon = Greek. I just learned that, despite my Mom being a fan of Greek mythology. So maybe I learned it a long time ago and the forgot it and am now relearning it? Who knows. The joys of forgetting. You forget that you forgot and then you get to "learn something new" again, over and over! 

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In other random news, I spent some time in some of the smaller towns in Türkiye and it once again reminded me of why I like going to one place or country for a longer time rather than trying to jam pack in a bunch of different places into one trip. Getting out of the big main cities and away from the main tourist attractions really does give you a different take on the same place. I am not saying that if you ever go to Türkiye, you should skip Istanbul or Cappadocia, but try some of the smaller towns on the turquoise coast, or maybe the Eastern part of the country and you'll see a different side than you normally would. I think I may have to do an entire post on this, as also even the touristy places have hidden sides. Cappadocia is not just about the balloons!!

...and the sun beat down upon my head...

Speaking of Cappadocia, long story short, I didn't wear a hat and it was sunny and went for a treeless hike and I burned the part on my hair. I am very good at applying sunscreen and I did do it but normally I wear a hat and so the lily white top of my head is protected. In this case, it wasn't and I am like a kid with lice (does your head itch now?) and I can't stop fidgeting with the dry skin! 

Speaking of lice, I am contemplating doing some hiking in Scotland but I hate midges and they are pretty much a staple in the summer. I think that the way my schedule is going to work out, summer would be when I am there but I am trying to figure out how to be midge free. Have you ever experienced midges? Do you have any anti-midge tricks?

Speaking of summer, I am having a first world problem where I try to decide what to do but I have a list about a mile long and many of the items are outdoor and the summer is only so long! I want to do them all but...see above where I talk about how I like soaking in one destination or place for a while. I am torn. My life is so hard! Do you ever have trouble narrowing down where to go when you travel? 

Speaking of life being hard, I have had a lot of questions about how other people abroad treat me when they learn about where I am from. I will say that I have had no issues, and in the last day alone, I have had to show my passport a few times, so people know where I am from! Some people have joked that they shouldn't be talking to me (British guy) or that they were going to put an extra charge on a tour (Turkish guy) but I have had no real ill will towards me. I had an interesting conversation with a Russian woman about our respective leaders though! That was fun! 

Okay, your turn! Here are all of the questions; feel free to answer any or all!

Are you old enough to remember passing notes in HS, and folding them like a US flag?
Do you remember the Janet Jackson half time incident!??
Would every flag be enhanced by adding a nipple?
Can you name all of the states in the US that are Spanish words?
Did you know that all of the Roman Gods have planet names!?
Have you ever experienced midges? 
Do you have any anti-midge tricks?
Do you ever have trouble narrowing down where to go when you travel? 

5.12.2025

What I Learned & Looking Back & Looking Forward: April 2025

April showers bring May flowers? In my world, it did rain a lot, so bring on the flowers! What about you? Please copy and paste the questions at the end and add your answers to the mix! 


1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 

January: Baguettes and Many Steps
February: In Like Minnesota; Out Like Hawaii
March: Wet and Wild
April: My Life is in Ruins, and Beaches Too

(the old stone kind, not anything psychological)

2. What did you learn last month? 

I learned that the Friday market has the best prices for produce, cheeses, nuts and even eggs. I also learned the Turkish have a cheese just like the Greek haloumi which I love. It's called hellim and it's just as good. I also learned to say a few more words in Turkish and can now say "let's go," "I'm here" and "you're welcome!" I also learned the word for loquats (yenidünya), and they are ripe right now. Also they are known as Malta plums, which I never knew! 

3. What was the weather like where you are? 

It was rainy a lot, but then also was in the 70s/80s, and there was some bad smog for a while. But it ended on a wet note again on the 30th! Make up your mind, weather! 


4. What event last month was your favorite?

I had a fun group hike where I met some interesting people! We saw ruins and the ocean and it was a nice day! 

5. What was the best thing you listened to or watched last month?  

I am going to tell this in book, movie/show, podcast format. 

Book: Crow Mary. Yup, I'm jumping on that bandwagon. 

Movie/Show: nothing. I watched nothing. 

Podcast: I'm binging Stephany's Friendships Paradox! Almost caught up to present day! I love binging and hate having to wait for real time episodes so I am kind of dragging out the catching up! 

6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

This is not necessarily a funny story, but I saw this odd conga line chain of caterpillars attached head to tail all traveling together and I had never seen it before. İt was fascinating. Here's the explanation. 

The pine processionary caterpillar (Thaumetopea pityocampa) is known for traveling in long head-to-tail lines, a behavior that helps them stay together and avoid getting lost while searching for a safe place to pupate. This procession is guided by touch and scent—each caterpillar follows the silk trail and pheromones left by the one in front. Staying in line also protects them from predators, as the group can appear larger and more intimidating. While fascinating, these caterpillars have tiny toxic hairs that can harm humans and animals, so it's best to observe them from a distance.


7. What are you looking forward to this month?

Finishing the hike I'm on, having a hamburger if I can find one, wildflowers, and maybe a little beach time before I head inland. 

APRIL:
1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 
2. What did you learn last month? 
3. What was the weather like where you are? 
4. What event last month was your favorite?
5. What was the best thing you listened to or watched last month?  
6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

MAY: 
7. What are you looking forward to this month?

Bonus question! Have you ever heard of a Malta plum? Or a loquat?