I have reached the fast travel portion of my journey, and I think that it may no longer be my style. In the last ten days, I have been to four different places, and while it is fun to see a lot of stuff, I think I actually short change myself a little because I don't see as much as I could, because I don't really want to be in the go-go-go mentality at the moment. Let me explain.
Destination one (Krakow) was cold, and while there were a ton of things I wanted to see, museums and Auschwitz and running on the river etc. I just did not feel like it half of the time. Don't get me wrong; I went out and did them, but I think I would have liked to have more time to spread out the things rather than cramming them into a smaller period of time. I went to one museum and unbeknownst to me, arrived there at the same time as the tours all started, and it was a funnel type of museum where you have to follow a prescribed route, and I had tours in front of and behind me, sometimes barely so. I was trying to read the history information and all I could hear was a lady in front of me speaking German and a lady behind me speaking Italian and at times there were people touching me as I stood there. It was not peaceful and I ended up trying to pass one group, only to realize that there was another Spanish group in front of them! On the flip side, due to the cold (15 degrees F / -9 C on some days!) and rain there were not a ton of tourists out, and I did have some nice solitary runs through the old town area.
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Krakow - St. Joseph's Church |
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Even the cats ride bikes in the Netherlands
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Destination three (Brussels) was kind of the same thing. I did not feel like making yet another list of things to do and to see, so I drank beer and wandered around in a leisurely way. I even booked a walking tour and then canceled it because I could just go and see the things on my own, but then I only went to about half of them in the end.
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Could not miss the pissing boy (PS he is tiny) |
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Brussels Main Square |
I arrived yesterday at destination four but did not feel well. I don't know if it was the early morning flight, weird food over the last day or so, or the fact that I worked out the day before (I lifted weights for the first time in years!), but I have been feeling a bit nauseous. I wandered around a bit when I first arrived and then went back home for a nap that ended up being a full night's sleep! I am still here and plan on doing a walking tour today but am leaving tomorrow for yet another destination.
The moral of the story for me, and this is something that I had already realized, is that I don't want to be on two week vacation mode. I like settling into a place and living the day to day life rather than feeling like a tourist who has to go and see everything in a one or two or three day period. I don't want to feel guilty for not going to this or that museum or attraction. I definitely have the mindset that I can come back, and this is not just placating myself, as I have returned to several places that I have been before, sometimes several times.
Of the last four places I have been, three were new, but I also "checked off" two new countries. However, I don't really like "checking off" countries or ticking boxes. I want to really get to know the place. I already knew that, but I think I needed this four country-palooza to remind myself of it. Luckily I will be staying for a month in the next place I am going so I will have time to do just that!
It's not all doom and gloom; next week I will be finishing up my FIG list, so stay tuned!
What is your usual travel style? How many places is enough for a two week vacation for you? Do you feel guilty if you don't check off your list?