What I Learned, Looking Forward, Looking Back: March 2026

You thought I only posted on Mondays, but I fooled you! Due to my 20 in 20 anniversary next week, this week I have a bonus episode for you. You're welcome! This is not a joke! 

Please copy and paste the questions at the end and add your answers to the mix! 

Where was I? Japan

What new food did I try? There were a lot of things! The most fun one was Okonomiyaki, which is like a noodle, cabbage and oyster omelet of sorts. 

What country related books or documentaries did I watch? 

Read: Fifty Words For Rain <-- Japan (kind of strange)
Read: The Reason I Jump <-- Japanese author, who happens to be a 13 year old boy with autism *This one was my favorite of the three
Read: South of the Border, West of the Sun <-- Japanese author

Watched: The Unspeakable Things That Happened in Unit 731<-- covert biological and chemical warfare research unit of the Imperial Japanese Army during the Second Sino-Japanese War (1937–1945) and World War II.
Watched: Being Japanese Part 1 and Part 2 <-- identity in Japan (especially if you are not full Japanese)

Notes: I enjoyed The Reason I Jump, as it gives you an insight into some questions you may have about autism. I also found the Unit 731 documentary interesting in that I had heard about the Japanese being cruel during some of the wars, but not this specific part of it. I really enjoyed Being Japanese, as it talks about the struggles to integrate for some "outsiders" to the Japanese culture. 

Did I complete any other items on this year's looking forward list? 

✅New food
✅ Sent > 5 post cards
✅ Hiking in Japan
✅ Book about country
✅ Documentary about country

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1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 

January: Devouring the Sweet Potato
February: Back in the Groove
March: Serenity Before the Storm

April will be busy, then...the summer will be busy...so March is the last calm month for a while! 

2. What did you learn last month? 

I learned that the reason the Japanese statues have little "aprons" on them is because they are an offering to the guardian of children and travelers, Jizō. Parents place these items on statues, often with hats, to ask Jizō to keep their children warm and safe in the afterlife, to ask for protection or express gratitude, or to ward off illness or evil.

Statues with bibs

I also learned how to wash before going into a Shinto shrine (use dipper to clean the left hand, right hand, mouth, then clean the dipper), and how to properly pray at the shrine (pay a coin for good luck, bow twice, clap twice, pray, bow again [and sometimes ring a bell]) and how you should walk to the side of the path as the middle is reserved for the gods. 

Washing station

3. What was the weather like where you are? 

It was great! It rained a few days but mostly it was around 10 C / 50 F. Perfect running weather! 

4. What event last month was your favorite?

Hiking the Kumano Kodo was great. It is a pilgrimage over 1000 years old and it just felt so serene, walking amongst the tall cedar trees, seeing the shrines and temples and hearing the birds and the bugs. It was right up my alley. 

5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? 

Book: I really enjoyed Travels with Charley, in which John Steinbeck takes a road trip across the US with his dog. 

Movie/Show: I started the new season of Top Chef, which is in the Carolinas this year. 

Podcast: Don't be fooled by the title; this episode of Choose FI is of two women talking about getting used to not hoarding time, and about how hard it is to let go of perfectionism. I related to them very much. 

6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

Well it's not really "funny" but I had to get dental work done in Japan, a root canal and a crown, in two different cities, and neither of them spoke any English! It turns out, they have very cool machines and the out of pocket cost (total--> root canal: $90, crown: $375) was probably less than it would have been at home WITH insurance. Despite disliking dentists generally, it was probably the most pleasant dental experience that I have had in a while. Also the second dentist let me take photos of him and his machines while he was making my crown! 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

The girls! They will be joining me for spring break and we have a lot of fun things planned. Elephants, floating markets, eating all the street food, massages, mani-pedis, beach time, temples, buddhas, the works! I will need a vacation once they leave but it will be very fun I am sure. 

Your turn! To copy/paste, highlight the text below and click CTRL-C, then put the cursor in the comment box and click CTRL-V.

MARCH:

1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that?
2. What did you learn last month?
3. What was the weather like where you are?
4. What event last month was your favorite?
5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? 
6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

APRIL: 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

Bonus question! What was the worst dental procedure you have had? 

Twenty Questions (E20): The Blogosphere

Sometimes I struggle to sit and write something. Today is one of those days. The motivation is just not there. I often schedule my posts, as I like to write when the mood strikes me, but I am a regimented person (so I've been told) and I don't want to have five posts one week and none for the next few, so in order to maintain some sense of order, I just schedule them for the next week or the one after. However, sometimes I know that I will not be able to respond, like when I am out of service hiking, and to me, there is no point in putting out something when I know I will not have time to have interaction. In that case I would skip a week or two. 

However, aside from sometimes not feeling motivated or being out on a trail somewhere, usually blogging is a regular thing in my life. I mean, I am writing this as the 20th list in a list of 20 things because I have been blogging regularly for 20 years after all. So there must be something special about it. Today I will tell you not one but twenty things that I have gotten out of the blogging world in the last 20 years.  

1. A creative outlet. Despite being very left brained, I must have gotten some of my parents creative juices (my Mom is an excellent artist and my Dad sketches the annual Christmas card by hand every year) and having a blog lets you let the juice out somewhere! I even started a photo a day blog back in 2010, and check out this one which shows the first time I went to visit Lisa! 

I used to take artistic photos of food

2. A place to vent. I have a lot of pet peeves. However, I was taught to say nothing if I could not say nice things, so instead of saying them to someone's face, I put them out into the interwebs. Haha. It doesn't make sense but it feels good, and I also love reading the responses I get to these kinds of posts! 

3. A sense of community. If you are reading this, you know. I mean, if you know, you know, right? All it takes is one comment and before you know it, you have found kindred spirits around the world. I definitely used to be a reader and a lurker, until I realized how important being present was and how sometimes someone needs to have that little bit of encouragement. I now even comment on small YouTube channels and IG posts, as I understand how much a comment means to someone! A heart/like is nice, but a comment sure does go a long way, and is a much better way to make long term friends! 

4. IRL friends. Oops I kind of already went overboard on the last point, but these comments mentioned above have become real life connections! As you know, in 2024, I met up with several bloggers on my ride across North America, and in 2025, I met up with a few European friends! I have also met several other blogging friends IRL over the years. I remember the first time I was heading to meet up with Lisa, my friend told me to "text her when I was safe!" 15 years later, I am still alive. :)  

A few of the past meetups!

5. A more open mind. We don't know what we don't know and blogging has helped to know more things. Whether it is reading someone else's blog, or a comment on my own, I have learned things, and I think that has made me a better person. For example, did you know that Australia has over 600 national parks? Thanks Melissa! Keep those facts coming! 

6. A journal. For this 20 year project, I started reading back a little, and wow, some of my past entries are very fun. I actually kept a real journal before I started blogging, and I still have them, but they are in a box, and it is so fun to be able to see where I was or what I was thinking over the years. I wish I was better at chronicling things, but I am loving what I do have so far. 

7. Good fodder for my future book. People have told me I should write a book, and if I ever do, I will definitely use this blog as material! You may be surprised (or not) to know that I also often keep a voice journal, a pretty detailed calendar, and a LOT of notes on my notes apps, so I could probably stitch something together. Any publishers/editors out there? 

8. More patience and understanding. I think any time you put yourself in a vulnerable position, you feel a bit of empathy for other people who are doing the same. I think many people sitting behind a computer who don't have to look other people in the eye are happy to judge without qualms. However, I know how that feels, and I don't want to do that to someone else. I think everyone should walk a mile in the shoes of the person they are planning to judge before they are allowed to speak. This luckily also translates to realms that I have never been in. So when you talk about how much stress you are in due to your new job or whatnot, even if I have not experienced it myself, I can relate more! 

9. A good laugh. Whether it is other people's comments, or my own wit, which is not that witty but hey, I can still laugh at myself, blogging makes me laugh! Or...my favorite thing (and this makes me realize that it has been a while since I have done one of these posts) funny signs seen around the world. Or this.... 

I also thought it was really funny that this bone looked
like a joint, but I think I was the only person who laughed.

10. A sense of belonging. No matter what, there is someone going through the same (or similar) things as you are. Getting to find those people is so precious. I guess on one hand the internet is good for that, as sometimes in your regular life, you may have many friends just due to proximity even though they are not the "best" fit. However, sometimes with blogging, you can find people who get you, and that is priceless. Whether you just finished your first trail race, or you are trying to sell all of your stuff to move across the world, you will find your people! 

March 2024 - Empty house!

11. Some tech skills. Hey, I learned HTML! Of course now it is much easier, but back in the dark ages of 2006 you had to do some coding from time to time. I am still pretty good at finding a tech glitch or solving a problem, and I think a lot of that is from doing this blog (and being frugal; DIY fo-eva cuz!) Or....I learned how to do this....

My trip to the North pole by bike (NOT!)

12. A thicker skin. This kind of goes hand in hand with #8, as I think that when you are in their shoes, you understand others, BUT sometimes the haters are gonna hate. I have dealt with a lot of spam and trolls and whatnot, but now I just delete and block. The end. I may have maybe had issues with it before but now it is like water off a duck's back. Most of the time. 

13. Great book discussions. Oh the books I have read! I don't know what I would do without the blogging community when it comes to reading. I don't listen to even one book podcast, but luckily for me, many other bloggers do and they have fed me so many good recommendations. Of course, now many of them (you) are IRL friends, and so we have many ways to swap ideas, but at the beginning, the other blogs were my book saviors. 

Reading with Pablo 😊

14. An ability to shine. I don't like to put myself out there, but I think over the years I have become more comfortable with myself being here. I am still embarrassed about some things, and I still want to protect myself and my people, identity-wise, but I feel a lot better about trying new things, showing them to people and being ready for whatever happens. You don't know unless you try, right? 

15. Routine. I love routine. As I mentioned at the top, I sometimes get a flurry of creativity and can write 5 posts in a couple of days. However, I generally keep my schedule regular because I love the routine. Every Monday I post and then I get the joy of comments over the next few days or so, and that keeps me buoyed throughout the week. I can take the time to thoughtfully respond and not feel rushed, and the back and forth is very satisfactory. 

16. Some solid feedback. For the most part, people are kind. And sometimes it is nice to hear other people's perspectives, and you never know, they may become yours one day. I think that putting yourself out in the ether is very vulnerable, but it can be so satisfying to learn and to grow, so that makes it worth it. 

17. Connections. As I mentioned in this post, it is amazing how close of a connection you can make with other people online. If you would have asked me in 1997 if I was going to be friends with anyone on AIM, I would have thought you were cray-cray.

18. Accountability. When I first started running more, and even signed up for my first half marathon, I started a blog to chronical my journey. I ended up merging it with this one, as despite liking categories and boxes, it was easier to just update everything in one place. However, it kept me accountable (despite the fact that literally nobody read it)!

I used to run a lot

19. A lot of lists. Lists is my top category! I do love a good list, and I actually enjoy going back to look at some of them. One of my favorites is the AMA question lists. I love not only answering them, but also hearing other people's answers to the same ones! 

20. Great interactions. I have a few lurkers. They know who they are (HI GUYS!). Sometimes one of them will comment, but usually I get a text or an email from them with a comment about one of my posts. I am good with that; I love the interrelations that my putting myself out there (which I am not comfortable with sometimes) evokes. 

In case you want to know about some of my blog origins, you can read this post where I talked about where I got my start as well as some other general blogging information. 

Tell me! If you are a blogger, what has being in the community done for you or how has it changed you? If you are not a blogger, what does reading blogs or participating in the community do for you or how has it changed you? 

Twenty Questions (E19): One of Each Please

Sometimes the differences you encounter when traveling are difficult. They are unfamiliar and some of them take a while to get used to. However, sometimes you see things and you wonder why they are not as common at home. This could be that they are there but we don't know about it, or maybe they're just less used. Either way, today I will talk about 20 things from other countries that I think I would like to see more of or maybe adopt for myself one day. 

1. European tilt and turn windows. Turn the handle one way and you open it like a door; turn it the other and you tilt the top open for air. We do have these (Pella brand for one) but they are expensive (can be $2000 for one) and I just don't see them very often.  

2. Japanese toilets. To be fair, these are also in other Asian countries. Regardless of where they are, there is nothing better than sitting on a warm toilet seat and having a nice squirt of water for when you are done. Also, some public ones play music or make soothing noises, so that you can have complete privacy no matter where you are. 

3. Taiwan lines. The people in Taiwan know how to queue! There is a queue for everything from food to trains, and it is very clear where you should stand, and pretty much nobody (except tourists) cut in line! Everyone just patiently waits. 

Waiting for food

4. Italian pizza. The first time I had a Naples pizza, I was in love. I also rather like eating it with a knife and fork, and I love that I can eat an entire pie myself. 

5. Electric kettles. Hot water in minutes? Yes please. I had a kettle that I would put on the gas range at home, but I do love being able to heat up water with the push of a button, so much so that I got my brother one for Christmas since he makes French press coffee every day. (Bonus item! I also love the electric induction stoves.)

6. Hot water dispensers. Taiwan often has a hot water dispenser instead of a kettle and the water in them is boiling! So if you want a cup of tea, you can have it in less than a minute! 

7. UK electrical outlets. In the UK, you can often turn each outlet independently off and on. In addition, they sometimes have power strips with the same function, so even if you have six things plugged in, you can just flip one switch to turn off power to that specific thing. However, don't do what I did and plug in your phone to charge and not realize for hours that the outlet was off! 

Don't forget to turn it on!

8. Coffee culture. I think this is more of a romantic notion, as I am not really one to sit in a coffee shop for a long time, but I kind of want to be that kind of person...I think? 

9. Hawker stalls. We need more street food! I love the night markets, hawker stalls and street food stalls in Asia. The food is fast, hot, cheap and it's delicious! 

Taiwan

10. Thailand massages. Let me be clear, I do not mean Thai massages. Those are painful! I want the gentle one. Getting a massage for less than $10 is a pretty good deal in my book! Daily massage, anyone?  

11. Self cleaning public toilets. We actually have these in San Francisco, but they end up being homeless abodes. However, I wish they would work like the ones in France do! 

12. Pho for breakfast. I love sitting down at a tiny little table off a random alleyway in a Vietnamese city and eating beef soup for breakfast. Top that off with the fact that it is often only $2 and it is right up my alley! 

Sign found in Vietnam

13. Cycling culture. I know some cities at home have it, but it is not as common as you will find in some of the other parts of the world. 

14. Weekly (or sometimes daily) outdoor markets. Getting fresh in season food is so easy in many places! It would be called a "farmer's market" where I am from, and the prices would be sky high, but in many places, this is just the weekly market, and its the best place to shop! 

Fresh market in Sarajevo

15. Carafes of wine. House wine is delicious and a half liter is a perfect size for me if I am dining solo. Actually it may be a tad too much, but sometimes they have smaller options, like 25 cl (about 8 oz). However, when in Rome, ya know... I like them too because you can get a small one of each kind. 

Beef Bourgogne and wine in Dijon

16. Food on the plane. If you fly KLM, even on domestic flights, they still give you a sandwich on the plane! I actually don't mind getting my own food in the airport or beforehand; however, it is kind of fun when you get a meal for a sometimes very short flight! 

17. Cheese markets. We need more cheese markets. Big wheels of cheese. Stinky cheese. Soft cheese. I actually have a great one near where I lived before (the Cheese Board; if you have not been there, go, but don't go on a weekend!) but we still need more! 

Dijon, France -- Les Halles

18. Bullet trains. The Japanese Shinkansen and the French TGV go approximately 260-320 km/h (about 160–200 mph). They are not cheap, but man it is nice to get somewhere fast! Fun fact: The fastest bullet train speed achieved is 603 km/h (375 mph). In contrast, a normal commercial airliner's cruising speed is around 800-965 km/h or 500-600 mph. 

19. Being naked. Hear me out here. I know North Americans can be a bit modest, but there is something kind of freeing about some cultures and their blasé manner about nudity. I definitely have had Swedish people just whip off their clothes right in front of me, but it may surprise you that in many hot springs or spas in places like Japan, Georgia and Türkiye (and more) that it is very common to have little to no clothes on. 

20. Recycling. It is different everywhere you go, but some countries really have it dialed in pretty well! Most European countries are very diligent, and the last two places I have been (Taiwan & Japan) are pretty strict as well. I am not sure if it is true, but it seems like both of them do it the same across the country, whereas in the US for example each city or county may have a different system. 

What thing have you noticed in another country (or region of where you are from) that you liked a lot or wanted to adopt in your own location? 

What I Learned, Looking Forward, Looking Back: February 2026

I like February; having four weeks means there is an organized manner to the month. Exactly four weeks with no extra days hanging off the ends. It is short but sweet, and is a good time to start planning for the months ahead. I did get some planning done, started my continuing education for my licenses and even worked on my taxes! So it was a productive month, all in all. Here is the look back for the month. I will also be adding notes on new foods, books and documentaries set or about the countries where I am traveling, and completion of any items on the looking forward post I did last week. This month, I will also go over a few of my FIGS, hosted by Elisabeth! 

Please copy and paste the questions at the end and add your answers to the mix! 

Where was I? Taiwan

What new food did I try? Peanut Ice Cream Roll (rice paper, peanut crumbles, ice cream and cilantro), aka the Ice Cream Burrito. Delicious. 

What country related books or documentaries did I watch? 

Read: Daughters of Shandong <-- China/Taiwan
Watched: Island in Between  <-- Taiwan

Both courtesy of Diane. Thanks! 

Did I complete any other items on this year's looking forward list? 

✅Rode a bike in Taiwan 
✅ Sent > 5 post cards

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FIGS: Lunar New Year decorations and celebrations, finishing a good book (see below), getting a clean bill of health, random morning catch ups with several loved ones, a few runs along the river, mostly great weather, a couple of fun and challenging hikes, dragon fruit smoothies, boba tea, getting my taxes 90% completed, getting my continuing education 90% completed, 7-Eleven takeout meals.  

7-Eleven Chicken Breast Bento
Tofu, egg, chicken, cabbage and rice

Just heat and eat! Cost ~ $3.00

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1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 

January: Devouring the Sweet Potato
February: Back in the Groove

This is a play on words as I (1) pulled a muscle in my back and had to read a lot and recover for a while. However, it could not have come at a better time, as I was (2) in the same place for one month, hence the "in the groove," as I was also able to get back into a routine of sorts for the month, even if it was not as active as I had hoped. 

2. What did you learn last month? 

I learned that firecrackers are lit during Lunar New Year to scare away evil spirits and the mythical monster "Nian," while welcoming good fortune, joy, and prosperity for the coming year. This ancient tradition signifies a loud, celebratory start to the spring festival. The noise and bright flashes are believed to attract good fortune and prosperity for the new year. 

How did I learn this, you are wondering? Well, this goes on not just for one day, but for about two weeks, or maybe more, and it happens all day long, but especially around 11 pm or 12 am! When I left at the end of the month it was still happening and the actual New Year day was on the 17th. They are VERY loud. Also, paper slips representing things like money, cars and homes are burned to honor ancestors and deities by providing them with money, goods, and, by extension, wealth for the afterlife. This is a crucial expression of filial piety (care for elders), ensuring spirits are well-provided for in the new year.

Needless to say, the month of February was very loud and smoky! 

3. What was the weather like where you are? 

It was mostly nice! There were a few rainy days, but all in all the weather was probably highs around 21 C / 70 F and lows around 9 C / 48 F. There were a couple of hotter and cooler days but it was very temperate for the most part. 

4. What event last month was your favorite?

Being in a place that celebrates Lunar New Year was a lot of fun. I mean, I have been lucky to live and work in San Francisco, where we have reportedly the oldest Chinatown in North America as well as one of the largest outside of Asia. This means that I have a rudimentary knowledge of the customs or events during this time. However, it was tenfold in Taipei! Also, in San Francisco I learned how to say Happy New Year, but I only learned it in Cantonese, so I have had to learn it again in Mandarin! The decorations and the lights and the lanterns are very striking and very impressive to say the least. 

5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? 

Book: The Moor's Account by Laila Lalami

Movie/Show: I usually don't have Netflix, but my Airbnb had it, so I binged Outlander. It was fun to see some of the places where I was only a few months ago. When I was in Scotland, I had not seen any of the episodes, but we did pass by some of the filming locations, and I actually stayed with a friend in Linlithgow. The palace there (where Mary Queen of Scots was born, and where my friend got married!) was Wentworth Prison in Outlander. 

I also got an Apple TV subscription with one of my credit cards and I need suggestions! Do you have any? 

Podcast: The Thoughtful Travel podcast. If you are looking for inspiration for destinations, or like to hear stories of why people travel, their mishaps along the way, traveling with kids and more, you may want to check this out! 

6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

I had a hamburger in Taiwan on one of my last days there. Why is this funny? Well, if you know me, you know that I like to eat the local food. However, I was meeting up with some new-to-me friends, and when I asked them if they wanted to go to the night market, my friend said that her husband was "not an adventurous eater" and that he liked going to Western food places. So not only did I have a hamburger, but I paid more for one beer and one hamburger than I probably have paid for my last 8-10 meals out at local places (and for the beer, I essentially paid San Francisco prices for it). However, the moral of the story is, that if you want to make new friends, you have to (literally) pay the price. PS they were both very nice people and I would hang out with them again. 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

I am looking forward to hiking the Kumano Kodo (PDF map here) in Japan. Like the Camino in Europe, it is an ancient (1,000 year old) pilgrimage linking three grand shrines. It is considered a path for healing, purification, and spiritual reconnection with nature. You know me, I love spiritual reconnection with nature! Also, there are Onsen, which are thermal baths, where you go naked, and I think that is something that I need to try at least once in my life. 

Your turn! To copy/paste, highlight the text below and click CTRL-C, then put the cursor in the comment box and click CTRL-V.

FEBRUARY:

1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that?
2. What did you learn last month?
3. What was the weather like where you are?
4. What event last month was your favorite?
5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? 
6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

MARCH: 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

Bonus question! Do you have any suggestions of what to watch on Apple TV? Have you ever been to a naked thermal bath? 

What I Learned, Looking Forward, Looking Back: January 2026

I know that for some, January was a cold and bleak month, but I was lucky to be in a place where that wasn't the case. After spending the holidays with family, I set off again, this time heading westward from home. It didn't start without a bit of adventure though, as the day I left, flights were being canceled right and left due to the conflict with Venezuela, and the airspace was closed over the Caribbean. My flight was delayed, then delayed again, then canceled. The wait time on the phone for an agent to figure out what do do was eight hours. I tried the chat, but as they often are now, it was a bot, and it was not very helpful! I got onto another flight, which was also delayed, then delayed again, but finally I made it out of the country! I ended up spending about 10 hours in the San Francisco airport. 

Pro tip: don't take no for an answer. When I got to the airport, despite not needing to check a bag, I stood in line for an agent. I asked him if he could put me on a different carrier, since the only other flight on my carrier (Delta) was the next day. He told me that with my 30 minute layover in Seattle, even with the delay, I was "going to be fine with the connection," aka, I would make my next flight. I was highly doubtful, so once I was inside the airport, I went to another desk with a real person and was put on a direct United flight, which is what I would have wanted anyway. Unfortunately this flight was also delayed and I ended up getting in about 4 hours later than I would have originally had things gone according to plan. 

The other saving grace was the lounge access I have on one of my credit cards, which I have been trying to decide the value of, but you can't put a monetary value on the ease of being able to hang in the lounge with food and WiFi and drinks and a nearby toilet while the world is going crazy outside. It's the rough times that show you who your real friends are and what things have more emotional value than you may have realized before. So, without further ado, here's January in a nutshell. 

Please copy and paste the questions at the end and add your answers to the mix! 

Where was I? Taiwan

1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 

January: Devouring the Sweet Potato

Taiwan is known as "the Sweet Potato" apparently due to its shape, and/or the fact that sweet potato plants are resilient, as are the Taiwanese people. In January, I rode around the entire island, mostly around the edge, eating my way around each city one by one. 

2. What did you learn last month? 

I learned that Taiwan is called the Sweet Potato. I learned that dragon fruits are a cactus looking plant. I learned that I don't really like asparagus juice but I love milk tea. I learned that the kanji for "cold" looks kind of like a puppy dog to me. Woof.

3. What was the weather like where you are? 

It was quite nice! Mostly around the 70s f / 20-25 C but sometimes a bit cooler, and a few days of rain and high humidity. However, mostly pretty darn good! 

4. What event last month was your favorite?

It's hard to say but I did enjoy the night markets in Kaohsiung, as well as a hike I did there, which I found randomly but really enjoyed! 

Kaohsiung Liuhe Night Market

5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? I got off to a a rough start and did not finish my first book until January 11th, but due to the bike ride, which meant LOTS of audiobook time, I caught up on my reading goals a bit and there were some good ones! However, none of them WOWED me, but I think my mood is just not in a "wow" mood right now, so I gave no 5 star reviews in January.

Book: Homeseeking by Karissa Chen, which I started during the cruise in late November, but finally came back to and finished, and am glad that I did. 

Movie/Show: I binged the last few episodes of Grey's Anatomy. I know its basically a soap opera, but what can I say, I still enjoy it after all these years. 

Podcast: Lives Less Ordinary on the BBC, where real people tell interesting tales, like this one, where a man accidentally finds his birth mother in his local bakery. 

6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

I got attacked by a monkey! I was in the Taroko gorge and I had just ridden up to a little village and I sat down to have a drink and a snack and before I knew it, a monkey was running up to me. I stood up to get away and he hopped up onto me and tried to get my food. For some reason, I resisted, as if saving my food was important, and he went away. However, two minutes later he was back, and I put my food behind my back to keep it away from  him and a different monkey came out of nowhere from behind and snatched it right out of my hand. It scared the bejeezus out of me and I screamed like a little girl! 

This is not the monkey that attacked me, but it is the same type.
(Formosan Rock Macaque) 

The funny (?) thing also is that I just watched Outbreak a few days before that and after the monkey took my food, I thought about how lucky I was that he had not bitten me or something! There is a scene in the movie where a little girl is feeding apples to the diseased monkey and it puts you on the edge of your seat, I tell you! 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

I am looking forward to the Lunar New Year, and to settling in a bit in one place, to going to a couple of meetups, finding some good hiking trails and eating more great food! 

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JANUARY:

1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that?
2. What did you learn last month?
3. What was the weather like where you are?
4. What event last month was your favorite?
5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? 
6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

FEBRUARY: 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

Bonus question! What is the longest amount of time that you have ever spent in an airport? 

What I Learned, Looking Forward, Looking Back: December 2025

December was an interesting month, and not a relaxing one, as is often the case. However, it was filled with good people, good food and sometimes even good weather! This is the last monthly wrap up for 2025 but stay tuned for my 2025 "month by month book" later this month! 

Please copy and paste the questions at the end and add your answers to the mix! 

Where was I? Atlantic Ocean, Florida, California

1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 

January: Baguettes and Many Steps
February: In Like Minnesota; Out Like Hawaii
March: Wet and Wild
April: My Life is in Ruins, and Beaches Too
May: Al Fresco
June: Tales as Old as Time: The Christianity and Wine Versions
July: Quick and Dirty: the Baltics and the Balkans Adventure
August: The Dark Tourist
September: Recharging The Batteries
October: Blown Away
November: Baby, It's Cold Outside
December: (Not So) Calm Seas

2. What did you learn last month? 

I learned a lot about sea turtles! I listened to a lecture by a biologist and learned about what the different types are, what they eat and how long it takes before they reach the age of maturity (10 years in some cases) and have to find their old hatching grounds to lay their own eggs. The one most of us are probably most familiar with is the Green sea turtle, which is the one with the pretty shell (like the one in Finding Nemo) but there are six other types! 

3. What was the weather like where you are? 

It was nice on the Atlantic, rainy and warm in Florida, nice on the California coast, but there has been a nasty tule fog in the Sacramento valley that is also quite cold and has been lingering! At my parents for the holidays, it was rainy (and the Sierra got a big snow). Then we got a King tide and a lot of rain, which caused a bunch of flooding and a shut down of the 101 freeway! Woohoo. 

Donner traffic cams on the afternoon of Jan 4

Marin county on the afternoon of Jan 3

4. What event last month was your favorite?

It's hard to pick one specific event, but I would probably say in general, it was spending time with loved ones! 

5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? Although it feels like due to visiting, I got no reading done, I actually did read a few good things. 

Book: The Correspondent & The Impossible Fortune (Thursday Murder Club #5) 

Movie/Show: My Dad and I got hooked on the Norwegian holiday TV show Home for Christmas (Hjem til Jul) on Netflix which was totally silly and very Hallmark movie, but of course it was fun to see how it all turned out. 

Podcast:  I'm enjoying Lives Less Ordinary and Things Fell Apart on BBC

6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

I told K's kids that if they swore, they would have to pay me $1 per swear word. The youngest, L, who is 11, asked if we could clarify which words were bad. I said of course we could and asked which she needed clarification for. She said, "what about the C word?" and I told her that definitely that was NOT allowed. She said, well can we confirm what it is (you know she just wants to say all the bad words but have permission to do it) and I said sure, but we won't repeat it ever again afterwards, and she says....Crap!

Of course I said, yes that is a bad word, but I thought you meant a different one and she wanted to know what it was. I did not enlighten her. 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

I am hoping to do some cycling if I can get my butt in gear (pun intended!) and rent a bike and figure out where to leave my stuff etc. This is where I want to go. Photos and stories TBD! 

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DECEMBER:

1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that?
2. What did you learn last month?
3. What was the weather like where you are?
4. What event last month was your favorite?
5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? 
6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

JANUARY: 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

Bonus question! Do you think crap is a bad word? Where do you draw the line for an 11 year old? 

Twenty Questions (E12): 2025 Best of Books

Happy Holidays! As you know, every year, I give you a list of some of my favorite reads from the year. According to Goodreads, I read 139 books in 2024 and DNFed an additional 12, which comes out to roughly 56,112 pages. Here are a few stats.  

Breakdown by star rating:
5 stars (loved/it was great): 14 (9%)
4 stars (liked a lot/it was good): 72 (47%)
3 stars (liked a little/it was okay): 40 (27%)
2 stars (barely liked/it was not that good): 12 (8%)
1 star (it sucked but I finished it): 1 (1%)
0 stars (DNF): 12 (8%)

Average rating including DNFs: 3.32
Average excluding DNFs: 3.61

As you can see, I am getting better at abandoning books I don't like, although this year I did not do it as much as last year (8% vs 13%). Also four stars was my most common rating once again (last year it was 41%), and due to there being a higher percentage of five star ratings (last year was 4%) I brought my average rating up from last year (3.48). 

Here's my list from last year, or you can find a list of all of my favorites from prior years on my bookshelf page or on Goodreads. 

The following books (in revese order of date read) were all five star reads: 

The Correspondent by Virginia Evans: This was a series of letters, mostly written by a 77 year old woman to various people, including authors, family members, friend's children and her next door neighbor. You can't help but like her and so for me this book caught me right off the bat. Her life takes some interesting twists and turns and you find out all about them in her correspondence. I generally enjoy this writing format, and this book was no exception. 

Wayward Girls by Susan Wiggs: I am sure you have probably read books about the wayward girls before, which were (often Catholic) girls who got pregnant before marriage and were sent to a home to have the baby and subsequently give it up for adoption. They were meant to be studying, but often were put to work doing labor for the institution that they were sent to. This one is similar to the others, but was an interesting story of how some of these places really worked behind the scenes. 

River is Waiting by Wally Lamb: Although disturbing, I could not help but get into this book. The other thing that was strange is that although the main character is technically the "bad guy" you kind of want him to succeed in the end. He is a father who commits a horrible crime and gets sent to prison, where he struggles both mentally and physically. The questions is: does he deserve to be punished or do we want him to be forgiven?

Mornings in Jenin by Susan Abulhawa: This is a fascinating story of the Israel-Palestine conflicts as told from the perspective of a Palestinian family. I feel like this is not a perspective that I have seen a lot, and so it was interesting to hear some of the stories. 

Heartwood by Amity Gaige: If you have not heard about this book yet, you may be living off the grid. Actually speaking of off the grid, it is a story of an Appalachian hiker gone missing and the subsequent search to find her. If you are not into hiking, you will still enjoy this book, but if you are, it will be even better. Even my brother read and enjoyed it. 

Careless People by Sara Wynn-Williams: There are a lot of books written by people in the tech world, where they talk about how bad or good it is, and some of them are much better than others. I definitely have DNFed several in this space, but this one was not one of them. If you have read or enjoyed Lean In, you may find that this book is an interesting counterpoint to some of items discussed in Sandburg's novel. 

Alive by Piers Paul Read: Funny story, I am fairly certain I may have read this a long time ago, but either way, I liked it again. This is a true story about a Uruguayan rugby team who are flying over the Andes in a small plane when they crash and land on a ledge high up on the side of a cliff. They have to struggle to survive and also attempt to get out of a very precarious situation. Spoiler alert! Some of them live to tell the tale, but it takes a long time for them to get help. 

The Beauty of Your Face by Sahar Mustafah: Interestingly, this book is also about a Palestinian woman, but this time she is living in the US. She is teaching at a Muslim school in Chicago when a shooter attacks. She struggles to mentally heal from the experience and has to delve into her past to come to terms with it. This book discusses the subjects of Islamophobia, living in the US as a Muslim woman and finding community in your roots. 

How to Read a Book by Monica Wood: Do you want to feel good? Read this. A young woman gets out of prison after serving a sentence for drunk driving and she goes to work at a bookstore where she makes an unlikely friend. It delves into forgiveness, family and friendship and... books! 

Look Closer by David Ellis: I love a good thriller, and this came right at the right time. I was in a bit of a slump, and this book is one that you don't have to think much about, but it is entertaining. It's a tale about money, greed, adultery and murder and it helped get me out of my slump. There are definitely some flaws in the writing, but for me it hit the spot. 

Crow Mary by Kathleen Grissom: This is the tale of Goes First, a Crow Native, who gets married off to a white trader, gets renamed Mary and moves with her husband to her new home near a trading post in Saskatchewan. She has to learn to adapt to the ways of the area, and form new friendships with the people there. There is still a lot of fighting between the whites and the Native tribes and over the years, there are many battles, some of which Mary has to fight in, and some of which are devastating to her and her family. I have also read both The Kitchen House and Glory Over Everything, and both books are also excellent reads. 

Brain on Fire by Susannah Cahalan: A true story about twenty-four-year-old Susannah Cahalan, who woke up alone in a hospital room one day, strapped to her bed and unable to move or speak, with no memory of how she’d gotten there. She becomes labeled violent, psychotic, and a flight risk and this is her story of how she figured out what was going on inside her head. 

By Any Other Name by Jodi Picoult: A dual timeline story about a woman in 1581 and one in modern day, both of who struggle a bit in the man's world of playwriting. In both cases, the women are passing off their work as someone else's and this is the story of how, despite the years between them, some things continue to be difficult to overcome. 

Some Honorable Mentions: As my biggest category was the four stars, there are way too many to mention, but to round out my list of twenty, a few others worth a read are: 

Listen For the Lie by Amy Tintera: A woman is suspected of murdering her best friend but she cannot remember any details of the night that her friend was murdered. Years later, a podcaster decides to dig up the past and old stories resurface. 

The Lion Women of Tehran by Marjan Kamali: This is a coming of age novel set in Tehran, where two young women of different classes grow up in the middle of a country filled with political strife. 

I'm That Girl by Jordan Chiles: Chiles' memoir of her time growing up, and her path to the Olympics. Of course, getting to that point was not easy, but this was even more true due to her race, and this book does a good job of describing the struggle to get there both physically and mentally. 

Has Anyone Seen Charlotte Salter by Nikki French: This is a very similar plot to Listen For the Lie, as it also about a woman who disappeared several years ago and a podcaster who digs up the past and of course some things that people don't want to be dug up. I guess I enjoy this storyline! 

The Three Lives of Cate Kay by Kate Fagen: Cate Kay is a famous author and has successful movies made from her stories. However, nobody knows who Cate Kay is. An author writing under a pseudonym, she is an enigma, but one day, she decides to come out of hiding. Of course her past also comes to light and we may be surprised to discover who she really is. 

From Here to The Great Unknown by Lisa Marie Prestley: Luckily, Lisa Marie's daughter recorded some stories with her mother before she died and this is a memoir put together by daughter Riley about Lisa Marie's life growing up with Elvis as a father. It was not an easy life and it was interesting to hear a little bit more about the behind the scenes world in the Prestley household. 

On The Hippie Trail by Rick Steves: Who doesn't love a good travel story? If you haven't heard of Steves, he is an avid traveler with several TV shows and books (and free walking tours!). This book was about one of his first journeys in the 70s from Istanbul to Kathmandu overland, and the adventures he had along the way. I loved seeing this adventure through fresh eyes and he has some lines in this book that I completely agree with. 

I will leave you with a few lines about his experience from the end of his book: 

"I believe that if more people could have such a transformative experience, especially in their youth, our world would be a more just and stable place. Travelers understand that the big challenges of the future will be blind to borders and we'll need to tackle them together, as global citizens and as a family of nations. And most fundamentally, travelers know that the world is a welcoming place filled with joy, love and good people. 

Young or old, rich or poor, backpack or rolling suitcase, the best way to understand this is to experience it firsthand. To get out there and get to know our neighbors. To build not walls, but bridges. 

I believe anyone can still stow away on the Reality Express like [we] did, get their fingers dirty in other cultures, wallop their ethnocentrism, and come home with the most valuable souvenir: a broader perspective." 

What was your favorite book of 2025? Do you mostly read audio, eBook or paper books? 

Twenty Questions (E11): 2025 Best of Travel

First of all, I just want to say sorry that I have been absent in communicating, reading and commenting, but I am not going to lie, I came back from being away and out of service for the last several weeks and marked all my feed "as read." I will be catching up slowly, but will also probably not be 100% on in December either, as my focus will be spending time with family. Now, onward! 

One of the most common questions I get asked about my travels is...what was your favorite place? As I have mentioned before, I liken this to choosing my favorite child, or my favorite book, which I believe is near to impossible. I mean, obviously I am my parents' favorite, but other than that, choosing a favorite is hard! Just kidding Broski! So instead of choosing a favorite, I will tell you twenty (in no particular order) destinations that I really enjoyed in 2025! 

Don't forget to add your two cents in the comments: what were some of your favorite destinations, vacations or trips in 2025 and why?? 

1. Hiking and eating in Mesita, Georgia 

Mestia

2. Cycling, beaches and history in Riga, Latvia 

3. Mountain sports in Bansko, Bulgaria 

Bansko

4. Turquoise waters in Kaş, Türkiye 

5. Slate houses, valleys and mountains in Snowdonia, Wales 

Betws-y-coed

6. Tapas, architecture & history in Granada, Spain

Granada

7. Architecture, food and wine in Dijon, France

8. Hiking the Via Transilvanica, Romania 

Sighișoara

9. Peaks of the Balkans hike through Albania, Montenegro & Kosovo

10. Riding across Wales on the Lon Las Cyrmu route

Lon Las Cymru - Yup, that's snow!

11. Learning about the textile mills in Macclesfield, England

Silk factory

12. Cave churches and rock formations in Cappadocia, Türkiye 

Cave church

13. Learning about ancient wine and religion in Georgia and Armenia

14. Sarajevo and the beautiful Bosnian mountains (and Mostar of course!) 

Stari Most, Mostar

15. Hiking and exploring the Isle of Skye, Scotland

16. Seeing Auschwitz and Krakow in the dead of winter 

This pile of prosthetics made me cry

17. Living on the beach for a month in Costa del Sol, Spain

18. Learning to make Khinkali and Khachapuri in Tbilisi, Georgia

Khinkali making

19. Skiing in the Alps in Valmorel, France

Valmorel

20. Trying to speak French again in Lyon, France

What were some of your favorite destinations, vacations or trips in 2025 and why??