3.16.2026

Twenty Questions (E18): Where I Find Inspiration

Oftentimes, someone else's post sparks something inside of me; sometimes its an emotion, or an idea for a post of my own, or inspiration about something like travel, saving money, books or life. For this list of twenty, in no particular order, here are 20 blog posts from around the interwebs that have made me go hmmmm for one reason or other. 

TRAVEL

1. Melissa always does great travel recap posts, but I especially liked the one about some of the things she will do next time she makes it back to Paris. She also has posts about what she DID do when she was there last. I have bookmarked all of them for future reference. In fact, just check out her travel category in general if you are looking for ideas. 

2. Another blogger with a good travel category is Birchie. She has decided to see all of the state capitals, and their capitol buildings, and their flags. She also has many other interesting round ups about hikes, bike rides, Frank Lloyd Wright and Hitchcock. 

3. Another world traveler is Coco, who does multi-year long stints abroad for her job, and has lived in several different places around the world (and is "picking up" Portuguese now that she is living in Brazil). I really enjoyed her post about Raja Ampat, which is a place I also have on my list! 

4. If you ever are headed to Nova Scotia, check out Elisabeth's posts about her home turf. She is a walking NS guide! She also just started a multi month European trip, and will have plenty more travel fodder coming up soon. I can't wait to get some future travel ideas from her adventures! 

5. Toot, toot! If you didn't guess by my blog title, I also like to travel! :) You can find my jumping off page here for a list of where I have been with links to some of the destinations! Or for the TLDR, here is the best of 2024 or best of 2025 to get you started. 

LIFE

6. Birchie's post about how she is feeling so far about retirement. This is definitely something I could talk about and relate to! I am waiting for episode two to hear how she is feeling now (a couple of months past the last post).  

7. San's post about friendship (which was inspired by Rachel's post about friendship), and how hard it can often be to make and keep good friends in your vicinity. I definitely relate to this, especially as I move around the world. The life of a nomad can be hard in that aspect sometimes! 

8. One of the early posts I read of Rachel's was of her thoughts on the usage of phones at the dinner table. She actually has a lot of thought provoking posts about smart phones and life. The funny thing is that when I was staying with her, we were at the dining table having tea (the drink, not the meal), and I pulled out my phone to look something up, not realized that "at the dinner table" meant "any time you are sitting at the table" and she asked me to please put my phone away or take it somewhere else. I 100% support her request and I felt bad for breaking a rule that I was fully aware of! 

BOOKS

9. Engie talks a lot about books. She even hosts an online (cool bloggers) book club a couple of times a year, and she puts a lot of effort into moderating it, with questions, quotes and plenty of mentions of hats! She also does a lot of reading challenges, but my favorite are her monthly wrap ups, where I often get ideas for future reads. 

10. I love a good wrap up, and Birchie's year end book reviews are right up my alley. A fellow Excel nerd, and lover of analysis, she keeps track of her books throughout the entire year in order to give us this yearly list. She also does a TLDR shoutout at the top, so if you don't feel like reading the entire list, you can still get some good ideas from the summary. 

11. Lisa's blog is private at the moment, but if you have access, you will know that she is a reader to no end, so much so that she and her boys go to the library nearly every weekend, and the boys get stacks and stacks of books to read. I also love that she has the same first world problem that I do, and that is that you can never have enough books on hold! I don't know what she will do once her kids get old enough to want their own eBook holds! If you just have time for one post, check out her Best Books of Years Past post

12. Elisabeth reads a lot more non-fiction than I do, but I get a lot of good ideas from her nonetheless. Also, I enjoy her yearly wrap up, and she separates it out into non-fiction and fiction in case you like one more than the other. 

13. Stephany and I are thriller twins. Usually if she likes it, I will like it. Her monthly wrap ups and annual reviews are super organized and have tons of fun stats and charts and are a joy to read. 

14. Julie has a ton of book reviews on her blog, and she does a great job reviewing them consistently (which I strive to do better). If you are looking for ideas, you will find a lot of them on her site! She reads all kinds of things, so there is a book for everyone there. 

LISTS

15. I love Michelle's 101 things in 1001 days list! It inspires me to make one of my own. I definitely have way more than 101 things and I do have lists of things, activities, places etc. that I want to do, but I need to organize it better into a cohesive list for sure. 

16. Suzanne's list of 20 lists that she could have done for Engie's 20th anniversary. Funny, I forgotten that I had bookmarked this, and it would have been a great resource for my own 20 list project, but I didn't remember I had it. However, I did accidentally do a couple of these anyway (peeves, 20 year old me) and I will be using the last one on her list next week, so stay tuned! 

17. Tobia also has a 101 things in 1001 days list and actually she is on her third iteration of this list! I love that this means she has already done over 202 things that are important to her. I think we all should aspire to make one of these lists and get started working on it! If you are not sure what things you want to try, you can get plenty of ideas here! 

LAUGHS

18. This post by Nance about backing into parking spots made me giggle, but also inspired me to write an entire full post about the subject, which I have scheduled for a future day when this list project is over, so stay tuned! 

19. Most posts by Nicole, but I like it when she talks about menopause or her honeypot, as those ones are always good for a laugh. She has a way of telling a story that makes you giggle and also want to hear more stories. She can talk about a book I read and didn't even like and I am still entertained. 

20. Argh, I ran out of numbers, so this will be a double header. If you want to laugh about stories in the life of a busy person, look no further than either Ernie or Kae's blogs. Both are busy working mothers, although they are in definitely different places in their lives. Ernie is a mother of eight(!!), including two adopted kids, and spends her days watching toddlers for a living. Kae is a mother of two teenage boys, one of whom is headed to college soon, and both of whom have various sports and events happening in life. I am awed at both of these strong women! Ernie's last post was aptly called 5 Eff-Ups Friday, and I enjoyed Kae's February recap in which she asks, "did February actually happen?" 

Obviously there are so many more of you who I get inspiration from, but I would need a list of 100 (or more! Maybe 101 blogs to read in the next 1001 days?) to list them all. So, even if you are not featured on today's list, I am still following along and am inspired by you! 

What or who has inspired you lately? 

3.09.2026

Twenty Questions (E17): My Capitol Collections

As soon as I saw Birchie's post about State Capitols a while back (she also collects, and ranks, state flags), I knew I had to do a post of my own about my "Capitol Collections." However, I have so many that I thought I would do a list of 20 of them. Some of these I have posted about before and some I have not, but one day maybe I will expand on some of them. I think that while having no material things, I do collect many experiences, and I definitely collect a lot of photos, so I will talk about a few of them below! 

1. I collect street art. The street art everywhere is fascinating, and some is quite good! I am always taking photos of it and love it when I come around a corner and boom, there is a cool piece of art staring you in the face! I will definitely do a post with some of my favorites, but here are a few. 


2. I collect space invaders. I had to put this as a separate one, as it is kind of fun! These are everywhere and I first saw them in Lyon and later found out that there is an app where you can collect them when you are traveling and make a game out of it! How fun is that?  


3. I collect toe dips. I love dipping my toes into whatever body of water I can find, and sometimes I even dip my entire body. In 2024, when I was riding around, I dipped in all five of the great lakes, and in 2025, I added the Baltic Sea, the Black Sea, and the North Sea to my toe dipping list. I don't pass a new body of water without taking a dip! 

No mountain too high, no river too cold (PC: Bugsy)

4. I collect states. I have mentioned before that I have been to 43 of the 50 so far, and will eventually get to the last seven. Luckily I have already knocked off Alaska and Hawaii, so the ones I have left could be an easy win if I set my mind to it. I can't tell you my favorite, but let's just say that if it has mountains, I am probably a fan. There are definitely many that I want or need to go back to! 

5. I collect countries. As of February 2026, I have been to 70 of them, but I am not really checking boxes because I love going back to places that I have been before. Of the 70, I have been to about 30 of them more than once, and some of them, I have been to more than five times (Austria, Canada, France). 

6. I collect baseball stadiums. This is definitely a very casual collection, as it is not something I strive for, but more of something I do if it is convenient. I have been to the Yankee stadium (new), Fenway (Boston), Wrigley (Chicago), Candlestick (old SF Giants), Oracle (new SF Giants), Coliseum (Oakland), Dodgers stadium, and Busch (St. Louis). I have also been to a baseball game in Busan (South Korea) and Yokohama (Japan). (FYI: supposedly there are 30 MLB parks; one in Canada and 29 in the US)

Fenway

7. I collect post cards. I had an entire box full of post cards when I went through my stuff, and I scanned them all because I could not bear to get rid of them. Some of them were from my childhood, some were sent to me when I lived in France, and some were from my grandmother, who passed away a few years ago, but was a prolific letter writer. They are all a glimpse of the past, and I cherish every one of them. 


8. I collect hiking trails. I have hiked in at least 50 of the 70 countries I have been to, and probably about 20 of those were overnight hikes. I especially enjoy hiking in countries like Scotland or Sweden, where you can pretty much wild camp where you want. This can be the case in many parts of the U.S. and Canada too. 

9. I collect National Parks. I have only been to 19 out of 63, but I am making my way down the list very slowly. I feel like at some point I will acquire a campervan and drive around to many more of them. It's on the to do list. 

Bryce (PC: CA)

10. I collect hellos. I think I can say hello in the language of every country that I have been to. Some may take a minute to dredge up, but it is funny how some of them stick. I was last in Japan in 2001, and I still remember how to say hello, good morning, good afternoon, thank you, excuse me, good-bye and good evening. I am also pretty good at remembering bad words and can swear like a sailor in Tagalog. I generally don't greet people like that though.

11. I collect snacks. I love trying new things, and snacks are no exception. I found a favorite cookie in Türkiye, and I could recommend several things at the 7-Eleven in Taiwan. I am not a big sweet fan usually, but do like trying them all, for the sake of data collection, naturally.


12. I collect ice cream. One sweet I never turn down is an ice cream. When I was on a bike, I often would reward myself for a hard day with a tub of ice cream. I have been taking it more easily lately, especially in light of my cholesterol being a bit high, but believe you me, when the girls meet up with me in Thailand we are going to find some and eat it. Although I generally get vanilla or mint chip, I love trying new kinds and some of my favorites are coconut, Thai iced tea, ube, and green tea. 


13. I collect travel mishaps. I have done some dumb things while traveling. I've missed trains, planes and buses, I've added an extra zero to a withdrawal amount and ended up with way too much cash, I have forgotten my ATM card...the list goes on and on. You can find more of the stories here

14. I collect book recommendations. I don't use Goodreads to mark "want to read" books anymore, but I do have a wish list on Libby that has, I am embarrassed to admit, 655 books on it. Why so many? Because I keep getting good recommendations, and despite being able to put 34 books on hold at the same time, I still don't have enough room on my holds shelf, so inevitably, they go on my wish list. To be fair, this was imported over from my Overdrive account, which I had for about 10 years before I had Libby, so I have spent a good amount of time collecting them. At this point, it is not really worth culling them, so there they sit. The other thing is that they don't automatically get removed from the wish list after you read them; you have to do that manually. I am not great at doing that, I will admit. 

15. I collect hearts. I used to collect heart rocks, but I gave them to my Mom when I moved, and now I just have photos. 


16. I collect doors. Who doesn't love a colorful door!? Where does it lead? What is behind it? Why is it so short/tall/round? The stories you can make up are endless. 


17. I collect people. I have had the most interesting interactions with people. I don't always seek them out, but when I do, I do love hearing a person's story about where they are from, and what they have done in their lives. When I was in Wales, I was having dinner at a pub, and I met a woman who did tours of the area and we got to chatting about life and travel and it was a wonderful way to pass a couple of hours on a cold night. I talked to a man from Sarajevo who played soccer in the streets as the city was under siege and other people were ducking bullets while doing their daily grocery shopping. As much as I often need alone time, I do love learning about other people and hearing their perspectives. Isn't that what makes the world go round? 

An Israeli, an Albanian and an American walk into a bar...

18. I collect old men. I have worked with a lot of older gentlemen and I tend to get along with them quite well. What constitutes an old man, you ask? Well it's hard to say, because I keep getting older and older, but they stay the same age. (5 points if you can name that reference!) Old ladies are okay too, but most of my workplaces have been 80% older men and 10% younger men and 10% women, so when in Rome, you know? I tried to visit one of them in Washington on my bike ride but he did not answer his email, so I fear the worst (although I looked for an obit and did not find one!) I just texted another one today to say hi, and I remember him telling me about 20 years ago about how he had three day long hangovers and I had no idea what he was talking about. Well Steve, now I know what you mean! 

A different Steve, who passed away from 
cancer at 57, which is NOT old. 

19. I collect animals. I don't have one of my own, but believe me, when I see one, I am going to stop and say hi. Be it slimy or slithery or furry, I like all of the creatures of the world. I would love to pick them up sometimes, but I know that is not the best idea at times! And I would never try to pet a bear. 


20. Last but not least, for Birchie, I collect Capitols, because, why not? However, I do not usually go inside; I usually just ride or walk by them! Actually, I have been in the California capitol building and the Texas capitol building for sure. I can't really remember if I have been in any others. I have seen the capitol buildings in Boise, St. Paul, DC, and Madison. Sadly, I have been to many of the capital cities, but did not visit the capitol buildings. Sorry Birchie. 

The only ones I have photos of:
Boise, Austin, DC, St. Paul & Madison

What collections do you have? How many state (or province or territory etc. depending on where you are from) capitol buildings have you been to? 

3.02.2026

What I Learned, Looking Forward, Looking Back: February 2026

I like February; having four weeks means there is an organized manner to the month. Exactly four weeks with no extra days hanging off the ends. It is short but sweet, and is a good time to start planning for the months ahead. I did get some planning done, started my continuing education for my licenses and even worked on my taxes! So it was a productive month, all in all. Here is the look back for the month. I will also be adding notes on new foods, books and documentaries set or about the countries where I am traveling, and completion of any items on the looking forward post I did last week. This month, I will also go over a few of my FIGS, hosted by Elisabeth

Please copy and paste the questions at the end and add your answers to the mix! 

Where was I? Taiwan

What new food did I try? Peanut Ice Cream Roll (rice paper, peanut crumbles, ice cream and cilantro), aka the Ice Cream Burrito. Delicious. 

What country related books or documentaries did I watch? 

Read: Daughters of Shandong <-- China/Taiwan
Watched: Island in Between  <-- Taiwan

Both courtesy of Diane. Thanks! 

Did I complete any other items on this year's looking forward list

✅Rode a bike in Taiwan 
✅ Sent > 5 post cards

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FIGS: Lunar New Year decorations and celebrations, finishing a good book (see below), getting a clean bill of health, random morning catch ups with several loved ones, a few runs along the river, mostly great weather, a couple of fun and challenging hikes, dragon fruit smoothies, boba tea, getting my taxes 90% completed, getting my continuing education 90% completed, 7-Eleven takeout meals.  

7-Eleven Chicken Breast Bento
Tofu, egg, chicken, cabbage and rice

Just heat and eat! Cost ~ $3.00

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1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 

January: Devouring the Sweet Potato
February: Back in the Groove

This is a play on words as I (1) pulled a muscle in my back and had to read a lot and recover for a while. However, it could not have come at a better time, as I was (2) in the same place for one month, hence the "in the groove," as I was also able to get back into a routine of sorts for the month, even if it was not as active as I had hoped. 

2. What did you learn last month? 

I learned that firecrackers are lit during Lunar New Year to scare away evil spirits and the mythical monster "Nian," while welcoming good fortune, joy, and prosperity for the coming year. This ancient tradition signifies a loud, celebratory start to the spring festival. The noise and bright flashes are believed to attract good fortune and prosperity for the new year. 

How did I learn this, you are wondering? Well, this goes on not just for one day, but for about two weeks, or maybe more, and it happens all day long, but especially around 11 pm or 12 am! When I left at the end of the month it was still happening and the actual New Year day was on the 17th. They are VERY loud. Also, paper slips representing things like money, cars and homes are burned to honor ancestors and deities by providing them with money, goods, and, by extension, wealth for the afterlife. This is a crucial expression of filial piety (care for elders), ensuring spirits are well-provided for in the new year.

Needless to say, the month of February was very loud and smoky! 

3. What was the weather like where you are? 

It was mostly nice! There were a few rainy days, but all in all the weather was probably highs around 21 C / 70 F and lows around 9 C / 48 F. There were a couple of hotter and cooler days but it was very temperate for the most part. 

4. What event last month was your favorite?

Being in a place that celebrates Lunar New Year was a lot of fun. I mean, I have been lucky to live and work in San Francisco, where we have reportedly the oldest Chinatown in North America as well as one of the largest outside of Asia. This means that I have a rudimentary knowledge of the customs or events during this time. However, it was tenfold in Taipei! Also, in San Francisco I learned how to say Happy New Year, but I only learned it in Cantonese, so I have had to learn it again in Mandarin! The decorations and the lights and the lanterns are very striking and very impressive to say the least. 

5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? 

Book: The Moor's Account by Laila Lalami

Movie/Show: I usually don't have Netflix, but my Airbnb had it, so I binged Outlander. It was fun to see some of the places where I was only a few months ago. When I was in Scotland, I had not seen any of the episodes, but we did pass by some of the filming locations, and I actually stayed with a friend in Linlithgow. The palace there (where Mary Queen of Scots was born, and where my friend got married!) was Wentworth Prison in Outlander. 

I also got an Apple TV subscription with one of my credit cards and I need suggestions! Do you have any? 

Podcast: The Thoughtful Travel podcast. If you are looking for inspiration for destinations, or like to hear stories of why people travel, their mishaps along the way, traveling with kids and more, you may want to check this out! 

6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

I had a hamburger in Taiwan on one of my last days there. Why is this funny? Well, if you know me, you know that I like to eat the local food. However, I was meeting up with some new-to-me friends, and when I asked them if they wanted to go to the night market, my friend said that her husband was "not an adventurous eater" and that he liked going to Western food places. So not only did I have a hamburger, but I paid more for one beer and one hamburger than I probably have paid for my last 8-10 meals out at local places (and for the beer, I essentially paid San Francisco prices for it). However, the moral of the story is, that if you want to make new friends, you have to (literally) pay the price. PS they were both very nice people and I would hang out with them again. 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

I am looking forward to hiking the Kumano Kodo (PDF map here) in Japan. Like the Camino in Europe, it is an ancient (1,000 year old) pilgrimage linking three grand shrines. It is considered a path for healing, purification, and spiritual reconnection with nature. You know me, I love spiritual reconnection with nature! Also, there are Onsen, which are thermal baths, where you go naked, and I think that is something that I need to try at least once in my life. 

Your turn! To copy/paste, highlight the text below and click CTRL-C, then put the cursor in the comment box and click CTRL-V.

FEBRUARY:

1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that?
2. What did you learn last month?
3. What was the weather like where you are?
4. What event last month was your favorite?
5. What was the best thing you read, listened to or watched last month? 
6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

MARCH: 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

Bonus question! Do you have any suggestions of what to watch on Apple TV? Have you ever been to a naked thermal bath?