What I Learned & Looking Back & Forward: March 2025

March: in like a lion and out like a lamb? You tell me! Please copy and paste the questions at the end and add your answers to the mix! 

1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 

January: Baguettes and Many Steps
February: In Like Minnesota; Out Like Hawaii
March: Wet and Wild

2. What did you learn last month? 

I learned that I love small towns but they are not as great for finding community when traveling for an extended time period. I learned that I can live with a shitty phone with a mostly dead battery, although it really sucks, especially when you are in a place where you may need maps, or to get into your remotely controlled (by the phone) door. I learned that having a new phone, with a working battery and a new camera is like a rainbow after a storm. 

3. What was the weather like where you are? 

Another spoiler by the title, but...it rained a lot! Here is the news from Malaga, which is near where I was. It was not great for life on the Sunshine coast, let me tell you. 

4. What event last month was your favorite?

Granada with the family. If you ever get to Spain, I liked Seville, but I liked Granada more! What a wonderful town with good food, outdoor activities and nice people. Plus you can't beat the fact that if you order a beer/wine, you get a free tapa with it! Those are my kind of people! 

Seen below left to right, top to bottom: Berenjenas con miel (eggplant with honey). This was my favorite. It sounds weird, but it is so good. Pulpo a la Gallaga (octopus). I love me some octopus, and this is so tender, and is not chewy at all. Anchovies (don't knock them 'til you've tried them pickled). Habas con jamon (beans with ham, aka pork and beans taken to the next level). 

Plus the Alhambra. Well worth a visit and you can see it from many parts of town, so it is also worth trying to get different views of it from different hills. 

5. What was the best thing you listened to or watched last month?  

I am going to tell this in book, movie/show, podcast format. 

Book: The Third Gilmore Girl; it was interesting to hear the perspective of Laureli's Mom, Emily, and also to learn more about Kelly Bishop)

Movie/Show: still watching Jeopardy! That Ken Jennings is really growing on me. Sorry, Alex! 

Podcast: Mostly money related; I am going through Choose FI from the beginning just for fun. 

6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

My Dad, brother and I were having dinner. My brother and I can speak enough Spanish to get by and my Dad can say baño and gracias. My brother and I were asking the server some questions about the menu in Spanish and my Dad says to the server, in English, what are they saying, and the server translates for him, in English, what we had been saying. I don't know why but I found it funny that (a) Dad did not ask broski and I what SHE was saying and (b) that she had to help him translate what his own kids were saying to her and (c) that she spoke perfect English so that we could have been speaking in English if we wanted to. I don't know why, but that made me giggle, like we need to have a translator hang out with us to translate to my Dad what broski and I are saying. 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

I am starting a long distance hike in April and am looking forward to it but am also kind of dreading it, as (a) it has been raining (!) and (b) it has been a while since I have done a longer hike. However, this is my MO; I often get "nervous" before doing something, even though as soon as I start, the nerves are gone and I just get to work, and I enjoy myself. Sometimes the planning can be fun but I think I am ready now to get the show on the road.

Fun story though: I met up for lunch with a woman who had just finished the same hike, and we had a fun time talking about life, travel and hiking and in the end, she let me borrow her tent! So now that is one less thing to worry about! I still need a sleeping bag and a pot, but those don't have to be good quality, so I can just find a cheap one somewhere, whereas it is really nice to have a good quality (and light!) tent! Thank you DB! As they say in the hiking world, "the trail provides." 

MARCH:
1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 
2. What did you learn last month? 
3. What was the weather like where you are? 
4. What event last month was your favorite?
5. What was the best thing you listened to or watched last month?  
6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

APRIL: 
7. What are you looking forward to this month?

Bonus question! Do you have a "the trail provides" story to tell us? 

Never Have I....Wait, Actually I Have!

Last week Elisabeth did a Never Have I Ever post and I always enjoy them, but when it comes to talking about what else that I haven't done, I never can come up with stuff, because how do I know what I don't know/haven't done? So I thought I would make a list of weird things that I have done and you can chime in to let me know if you have done these things! Also, I want to apologize in advance to my parents or anyone who I may offend or make blush by stating these things. 

1. Shot a gun

It was not this one!

2. Joined the mile high club (it is much more exciting in the movies FYI) 

3. Eaten a rambutan

Rambutan

4. Driven a tractor

5. Been over 5,000 m (16,500 ft) in elevation

6. Eaten a bug (on purpose)

Chapulines

7. Read a book in another language (Harry Potter y la Piedra Filosofal. It took me a while, but I did it during the pandemic, so, you know, I had time!)

8. Driven a car in another country (Spain, Germany, Austria, Italy, Turkey, Scotland and Ireland, all manual)

Ireland

9. Driven a motorcycle. (Did it when I was younger, and then again in Vietnam and Thailand, with a person on the back, which is scary!)

10. Stayed up past dawn (partying! Just kidding. I did stay up all night in Buenos Aires because they don't go for dinner until 10 pm, then you go out afterward, but mostly my all night jaunts are running related) 

Finish line of Bryce 100 after staying up all night
(plus it was over 100 degrees too!)

11. Gone commando (cycling, but then I realized that I don't mind it!)

12. Wet my pants (just a little not fully, but sometimes when you have to go really bad and then you sneeze...well...) 

13. Had an Irish car bomb (not for several years but they used to be fairly de rigueur) 

14. Smoked a hookah (in New Orleans and San Francisco, but never in a different country)

This is not me, but I am drinking that martini!

15. Heard a call to prayer (in Istanbul. 5x per day in most cases, and I think 6x during Ramadan)

2004. What a baby I was (sorry about the quality)

16. Stepped on a snake (Luckily it was not poisonous. I jumped so high after that!) 

It was not this one. This one IS poisonous.

It was not this one. This one was huge, but in a tree. Don't F with the red tailed boa. 

Here is the list so that you can copy and paste (to avoid the copyright note, just highlight and click CTRL-C, then CTRL-V into the comment box). 

1. Shot a gun

2. Joined the mile high club 

3. Eaten a rambutan

4. Driven a tractor

5. Been over 5,000 m (16,500 ft) in elevation

6. Eaten a bug (on purpose)

7. Read a book in another language 

8. Driven a car in another country 

9. Driven a motorcycle. 

10. Stayed up past dawn 

11. Gone commando 

12. Wet my pants 

13. Had an Irish car bomb 

14. Smoked a hookah 

15. Heard a call to prayer 

16. Stepped on a snake 

Have you done any of these things? What other strange things have you done in your life that I can make a NHIE post about later? 

March Madness

March seems to be one of those months that things happen. You may recall that two years ago, I wrote a post about the 23rd of March. I know most people probably equate the pandemic as the 16th, but for me, the 23rd was the day that had the most impact on me. Last year, on this very day (the 24th), I was riding off into the rain for my first day of my bike trip! I was looking back at that time, and realized that this day, and the couple of days to either side of it, are days that for some reason things happen. I am guessing it is because winter is starting to thaw and the urge to get out and about is high. Here is a quick recap! 

On this day in 2010, I was in New Orleans, getting ready for a RTW trip. 

City Park, NOLA

On this day in 2011, I was in Bali. 

Bali

On this day in 2012, I was in Kansas City (the week before that I was in Naples, FL and the week after that I was in DC running the Cherry Blossom 10 miler. I got around!)

Kansas City

On this day in 2013, I was getting ready to fly to Boston for the Boston Marathon. 

We both survived!

On this day in 2014, I ran the Rim to Rim to Rim in the Grand Canyon with my brother. 

Somewhere between the north and south rim

On this day in 2015, I was touring the house that I bought! Less than two months later, I would be a proud homeowner! 

Photo I took at the Open House. 

On this day in 2016, I was in Yosemite. 

Yosemite Falls, beer in a sock. 

On this day in 2017, I ran the Rim to Rim to Rim in the Grand Canyon with some friends. March is a good time to do this, as it is not too hot, and the North rim is still closed (less tourists). 

Headed down from the North rim to the South rim. 

On this day in 2018, I walked over the border into Tijuana and ran a 50k and then went back to San Diego for some beer. 

Oceanside, CA

On this day in 2019, I ran in the Marin Headlands. This is one of my favorite places to run and hike. 

Pirate's Cove

On this day in 2020, we all know what happened! 

Everything is closed? No problem! 

On this day in 2021, I worked from home from Oregon. 

Deschutes River

On this day in 2022, I went to New York for a wedding that was supposed to happen on March 14th, 2020. 

This is not my wedding outfit ;)

On this day in 2023, I am the soccer chauffeur. I drop off the kids and take a hike. The east bay in March is beautiful and green. In summer it is brown and dry. This was right after the collapse of several regional banks.

Sycamore Valley Park

On this EXACT day in 2024, I was setting off for my bike trip! 

Happy anniversary, Bob! 

So what happened this year? I spent some time in Granada and Malaga and am headed off on a new adventure today, which I will talk about more later! 

What were you doing on this day over the last few years? Or if March is not your jam, what month do you usually have a lot of things going on? 

TGIM

Happy St. Patrick's Day! Finally the sun came out! But not for long. The last few weeks has been a lot of rain, and there is supposed to be more today but at least it was not too rainy this weekend, as I had outdoor things planned. Keeping fingers crossed that next week there are a few sunny days too. 

The high of the last week was: Hiking with my Dad and brother. Of course, in the typical fashion of our family, it ended up being more miles and more elevation than expected, but the scenery and the company made it worth it. 

The low of the last week was: Rain. Out of seven days, six had rain, and some of them were torrential downpours with thunder and lightning, which was not super fun. In fact, I think it even hailed a bit. The good part of it was that there were some nice rainbows! 

Five minutes after this photo, it was hailing

Something I marked off my to-do list was: I worked on my taxes but did not get them totally finished. I plan on doing that next week and will be glad when this task is done. I was trying to decide whether itemizing would work this year, as I gave SO MUCH STUFF to charity. It may be a little better, but I have to put in each thing, so it's a bit of an admin nightmare. 

The book I am reading is: The Passion of Dolssa on ebook and listening to Sociopath on audio, but I am not really getting much reading done at the moment. Thanks to Stephany, I did get Woman on The Ledge from the library and thanks to the rain, I read it in one day! It was good! 

The best thing I spent money on was: I haven't really spent too much, and I booked a lot of my accommodation a few months ago, so haven't had to spend big amounts lately either. But if the question is the "most" money, it would be a new phone, but if it was the most FUN money, it would be food, or attractions. We did a great walk yesterday that was very fun!

Caminito del Rey

Plans for this week include: Hiking, eating, spending time with family, looking at stuff. 

My favorite photo from the last week is: This definitely is the worst photo I have taken in a while (I was moving, it was dark, and I don't know how to use my new phone) but this guy walked by when we were having dinner and I had to get a photo with him! May the force be with you. Or should I say "que la fuerza te acompañe!"

What are you reading? What was the high/low of your week last week? What have you crossed off of your to-do list lately? 

Rainy Day People

Remember my story about the Spanish cleaning lady? The day after that, I went for a morning run on the Guadalquivir River in Seville, where there is a dedicated running path. If you ever walk or run a route near your house, you will probably make eye contact with people walking the opposite direction and maybe nod or smile or wave or acknowledge them in some way. Or maybe you don't, and if that is the case, maybe you can explain why barely anyone on the path made eye contact and those who did just gave me a side eye and looked away. No smile, no nod, nothing! I guess I assumed that people living in a warmer country, who can get outside in the winter in much of the country, and who speak the language of romance, would be cheerful! 

Guadalquivir river path ---> glum

On the flip side, when I went running on the Vistula river in Krakow, and it was about 13 degrees F (-8 C) out, everyone I passed smiled and nodded and waved. Now, I am sure that in reality, there is no correlation between weather and friendliness, but I thought that people in the warmer climes would be more engaging; I mean, you are outside, it is a beautiful day and it is not 13 degrees F outside! Rejoice! 

Vistula River path --> very cheerful

After seeing several people with glum faces, I started trying to make eye contact with people and then smiling at them and basically out of the couple dozen people who I tested this on, one person smiled back. What is happening here (besides them probably thinking that I am loco in the cabeza! I mean, they may not be wrong)? 

So then I thought that maybe it was just a city thing. I mean, if you are in San Francisco versus being in a small California town, you will probably get more people just going about their business and not saying hello to every passerby, whereas in a small town, we wave at everyone, whether we know them or not. However, even in San Francisco, if you are running on a path next to the ocean, you may still give a brief nod of solidarity to other runners.

Pacific promenade --> slight nod

Anyway, then I went to the Costa del Sol to a small town on the coast, and ran along the promenade there, and tried to make eye contact (loco!) and still was not getting any response. 

Mediterranean promenade --> still glum

And then it rained. You know me; I never let a bit of wet deter me, and I went out for my daily run along the beach. There were not a lot of people out. It was raining and very windy and the drops were pelting my face and I could not even hear my music. But then it happened! The few people going the other way were smiling! Even a guy on a bike looked straight at me and WAVED! I was so happy! 

Rainy day at the beach --> Happy as!

I mean, look, I have not made any lifelong friends from this experience, but it turns out that braving adversary together seems to be the ticket. Maybe that explains why the Polish people were friendly? Braving the cold = we are in this together! 

What is the vibe like on your normal walking or running route? What is your theory about cold vs hot and friendliness?   

What I Learned & Looking Back & Forward: February 2025

February is over, so you know what that means! Time for another wrap up! Please copy and paste the questions at the end and add your answers to the mix! 

1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 

January: Baguettes and Many Steps
February: In Like Minnesota; Out Like Hawaii*

*It was freezing at the beginning of the month, actually way below freezing and then beautiful at the end.  

2. What did you learn last month? 

I learned so much that I cannot even list the things. I watched Schindler's List and then went to the museum in Krakow and although I knew a lot about the German invasion of Poland, I learned a lot more. I also learned some French, Polish and Dutch words. Bedankt!

3. What was the weather like where you are? 

I guess I had a spoiler alert with my February book title, but it varied! I think the lowest was about 9 F / -12 C and the highest was about 65 F / 18 C. 

When it's cold, I eat bread products!

4. What event last month was your favorite?

Well, I would not say "favorite" but I am glad I went to Auschwitz and saw it with my own eyes. It was very cold that day and I kept having to pause and think about how cold it would have been, and obviously how horrid, for the poor prisoners who were there. 

On the flip side, arriving in Spain to warmth and water has been a mood lifter for sure! 

5. What was the best thing you listened to or watched last month?  

Schindler's List. I don't know why I never watched it when it came out. Also I am still watching Jeopardy and am loving the Tournament of Champions (TOC for those in the know). It also makes me feel smart, as sometimes I know answers that the contestants don't. Of course, I have no pressure as I sit in my pajamas and yell at the screen! 

6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

I got chewed out by a cleaning lady in Seville on my first real day in Spain. She was mopping the outdoor tile patio at the Plaza de España, where there were hundreds if not thousands of people walking around (on the tile) and I walked over the wet part, and she came at me! Obviously I did not know all the words, but she was not happy, so I said, "lo siento (I am sorry)!" and she said, "lo siento, coño!" which is not a nice word. I almost giggled right in front of her, as I do not know a lot of Spanish, but of course I know the bad words. I managed to get far enough away to giggle without her seeing me. 

Plaza de España; see the tile? 

7. What are you looking forward to this month?

I have people coming to visit! My uncle, who has never really traveled out of the US except to go to the Bahamas (?), is coming, and my Dad and brother will be here too. I see many games of cards in our future, and we have already booked some hiking and sightseeing trips. It will be fun. 

FEBRUARY:
1. What is the name of your last month's chapter or the theme of your last month if you prefer that? 
2. What did you learn last month? 
3. What was the weather like where you are? 
4. What event last month was your favorite?
5. What was the best thing you listened to or watched last month?  
6. Tell us one funny recent story. 

MARCH: 
7. What are you looking forward to this month?

Bonus question! Have you ever been cursed out in a different language? 

FIG Wrap

It's time to wrap up the figs! In case you forgot, this is where we find something to be grateful for each day. You will see from the below that I am extremely food motivated and food makes me happy! I want to thank Elisabeth for dreaming this project up and keeping track of everyone's goings on. I am grateful for you, Elisabeth. And now, onto the other FIGs. 

These figs are from my tree in Oakland! 

10. I arrived in Krakow! Yay. Also, it was very late (midnight) and I not only figured out the bus system, but it only cost about $1.50 to get into town from the airport. Just to put it in context, from SFO to the city center is about $12 on the train, and if I were to take an Uber home, it would be about $60, and even getting to/from the airport in Lyon was $17. Hey, that's $10+ extra dollars that I can use to buy more food! Priorities.  

11. I went on two separate walking tours and the guide was very jolly. His name was Tomasz and he was very tall and very passionate about history. It was a somber day at times, and a cold one, but I learned a lot and so am thankful for that. 

12. I had a nice (very cold) run around the old part of town and then came home and snuggled up and finished a good book and ate pierogis! 

Wawel Castle

13. I tried my first Obwarzanki, which is basically like a bagel, but a bit less puffy. I ate it as I walked through the old part of town as the sun was rising. Also, today it was warmer, only 32 degrees instead of 17, feels like 9! Yay. This sounds like a joke, but I spent the entire day outside, so was very happy that it was not colder. VERY happy. 

Obwarzanki man

14. I went to the Schindler Factory Museum, which is not in itself positive, but it definitely makes me grateful for a lot of things like food, hot water and life itself. It was very cold too and imagining the Jewish people walking from the ghetto to the factory for work, which was a blessing, makes me really think hard about my own life in general. 

15. A warm bowl of Zurek. It's mustardy, it's meaty, it's hot. What more can you ask for. 

Zurek

16. Zapiekanki. Basically bread with cheese. But melted. Yummy. 

Zapiekanki

17. I met up with my cousin and had a great time chatting and catching up with her and her partner. 

18. My cousin and I went for a morning walk to a farm, went to Haarlem for a beer, met up with a friend of hers in Amsterdam for happy hour, had a nice lunch (bitterballen for the win!) and met up with her partner for a great dinner. Wins all around: good food, good beer, good company! 

Bitterballen

19. Wednesday market and my first homemade Stroopwafel! The old man was so cute and he let me take a photo of him. Have I mentioned that I have a thing for old men with hats? 

Stroopwafel man

20. Another walk to the farm, and this pig kindly let me take his photo! Have you ever seen such a cute little pig? 

21. I rode a bike to the beach and put my feet in the North Sea for the first time. 

22. Hard to choose one, but I would have to say Belgian beer! 

So many good ones!

23. I worked out! For the first time in a looooong time. It was fun (until the next day!) I forgot that the weights were in kilos at first and I was wondering why I was so much weaker than I used to be. Then I remembered and felt pretty good about myself! 

24. My flight was on time, I got my backpack on with no issues (budget carry on rules in Europe, woof), and I arrived in a new place that is WARM! Yippy kai, ai, yay. 

25. I spent literal hours just walking around Seville, enjoying the warmth and the new vibe and colors. It even rained and I didn't care. Also I spent probably an hour in the grocery store, ogling the ham hocks, various yogurt drinks, and potted meats. 

Plaza de España

26. As I ride the bus towards the coast, I can't help but smiling at the excitement of being in a new place. Even though this also means figuring out new language, customs, routes, and daily routines, it is exciting, and even more so when I crest the hill and see the ocean. My next month will be near the sea and I am really happy about that. Sunshine really is an amazing balm for the soul. 

27. Where to start? I went for a run along the ocean. I went grocery shopping in a new place, which is one of my favorite things to do. And I sat here, and watched the sea as I read my book. 

28. Today's morning run. 

Happy Friday! 

What was your sweetest FIG this week?