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7.14.2025

Summertime, and The Living is Easy?

I had to do several things when I was in the country of Georgia and it is amazing how hard a normal everyday task can be when you are in a place that you are unfamiliar with. We kind of take for granted the fact that if we need batteries, we can just go to Target (or wherever) to get them, or we can order them from Amazon. But where do you go to buy batteries in Georgia/Turkey/Thailand? Here are a few things that I did and a quick(ish) note on how they went. 

Getting your teeth cleaned. A few months before I left home, after having one filling keep falling out over and over because it was kind of situated on the side of the tooth so it couldn't hold on, my dentist told me that I needed a crown. When I inquired about the cost, the receptionist told me that actually their office did not accept my insurance for this procedure. I found this odd, since I had been going to them for years at this point, and had even had fillings redone with no (insurance) issues. They told me I had to have the PPO vs the HMO type insurance in order to do the procedure. So during open enrollment (December) I swapped to the PPO only to find out later (doh!) that my dentist was not in the PPO network. What the what? So I had to find a new dentist two months before I left, book an appointment and ask them to do a crown. However, the new dentist told me I did not need a crown and that she could fix my filling. In the end, this is probably the best accidental decision that I could have made. She also did a cleaning, fixed another filling that was kind of old, and fit me in on a Saturday to get it all done before I left. Best dentist ever (but this bar is pretty low to be honest). 

Bear with me here! My point is that I don't love going to the dentist in good circumstances, when I speak the language and know how to use (kind of!) the insurance system. But I had waited long enough; it had been a year since that last cleaning and I knew I needed to get my stuff in gear and just get it done. I looked into it in Türkiye, as they are known for dentistry, but nobody got back to me; I assume it could be because I was only wanting a cleaning rather than some huge dental procedure. Also when you ask about a good dentist in the expat group, you get some answers that kind of look like ads (this happens for apartments and other services as well) and so it doesn't inspire confidence. 

Turkish Dentistry Ad (not my teeth😊) 

So I asked about it in the Georgia expat group and got a few answers, so I started emailing dentists. I find this easier because if I call and they don't speak English it is hard to communicate over the phone. Also it gives me an idea of whether or not someone in the office does speak English. I emailed three and two of them got back to me and they both spoke English but one did not really answer my questions so I went with the other one that was more expensive but had better communication skills. 

I went to the office on the day of my appointment and it could not have been easier! The receptionist spoke English, the office was clean and cozy, it had a clean bathroom and a water cooler, the dentist was very nice and she explained everything to me before she did it, and she told me I had good teeth (I love her!) It was all very professional and I was in and out in about a half an hour. I could use my credit card to pay and the dentist even asked if she could write me a note or something to use for my insurance so that I did not have to pay it all out of pocket (my insurance only covers dental emergencies). In the end, it cost me about $60 USD. 

Getting a haircut. Luckily, in my case, I don't really care about my hair. The last time I got my haircut was when my friends came to see me in Canmore (June 2024) and I had my friend trim the ends. 99% of the time, my hair is up and so this is not something I really worry about too much. However, I was starting to have a little trouble putting it up (it was getting very long) and also the ends were pretty ragged, so one day I was walking around a small town and I saw a hairdresser and I got a wild hair up my a$$ (pun intended) and decided to walk in and see if they had free time. 

The hairdresser did not speak a lick of English. She spoke Russian, Armenian and Georgian, which did not really help me, but thanks to Google translate, we figured it out. I told her I just wanted to cut it shorter, she asked me a few questions, we negotiated a price of 40 GEL, which is about $15 and we were off to the races. She did an excellent job shampooing and massaging my head and then we were in the chair doing a bit of a blow dry when the power went out. This kind of cracked me up because (a) normally when I get my hair cut, they cut it when it is wet and (b) of course the power went out and (c) she refused to cut anything until it was more dry. So we had a coffee and sat and waited. It took a while for my hair to dry, so I probably sat there for about a half an hour before we finally got started with the cut. 

Getting a haircut in Borjomi, Georgia

Interestingly, she actually did the first cut with a pair of hair clippers. I have had people use razor blades, but never hair clippers, on the ends (not to shave the sides or something). Then she fine tuned it with scissors. When she was done, she styled it and waxed it and sprayed it. She then told me that since I had to wait so long, she would only charge me 30 GEL ($11). All in all, it took about an hour and 15 minutes maybe, and I was very pleased with the results. 

FYI, I have also had my hair cut in Argentina (a bob) and Thailand (a pixie) and in both cases, they did an excellent job. 

Buying running shoes. Luckily, I am not super picky about my brand of running shoes. I have tried several with good results, but I normally go with Saucony. At home, I put several pairs in my Amazon cart and let them sit there until the price goes down and I always (ALWAYS) buy them on sale. So usually I get a pair of $125-$150 shoes for about $50-$60. Well I don't have the luxury to do all of that when I am traveling! First of all, and I will talk more about this in another post, I sometimes don't have an address to send things to. Second, they don't always have the brands that you may be used to. I don't really want to buy a European brand unless I have heard of it or tried it. For example, I have used Solomon before and I would buy those if I saw them. Also La Sportiva is well known throughout the running world and so I might buy them, but I have never tried them. 

I really needed to go to a brick and mortar store. Have I mentioned that I hate shopping? Do you know the last time I bought shoes at a brick and mortar store? It's been a while! So I look up sporting goods stores and go to the first one near me. I walk in and the salesperson automatically asks me if I need help (in Georgian) and I go through the "do you speak English" rigmarole and find out that the running shoes are downstairs. I go downstairs and the salesperson asks me if I need help (in Georgian) so I go through it again and find out that they only carry Nike, which does not work for me, plus their running shoes are more like walking/jogging shoes, and I need something substantial. 

I go to the next store, do the Georgian/English dance with the salesperson, and they only have La Sportiva, and they are around $180 USD. I don't really feel comfortable paying that much for a brand I have never tried. I am okay paying normal retail (I mean, I am not, I would rather have them on sale, but needs must) but not for an unknown brand, and I will be leaving Georgia soon and would have no way to return them later if needed. Plus, do they even do that here? I don't know. 

I go to the next store, which is a New Balance store, and do the Georgian/English dance with the salesperson. I haven't worn NB since the 90s but it could do in a pinch. Once again, they cost around $150 USD and they are mostly walking/jogging type shoes. I really want a trail running shoe if possible or at least a hefty street shoe. 

I go to the next store, and do the Georgian/English dance with the salesperson. This store has a few brands, one being Jack Wolfskin, which is a German brand of outdoor apparel and all I know about it is that it is expensive and popular, but I have never tried it myself. I consider this but then, lo and behold, I spot a familiar logo, Hoka! I wore Hokas back in the day when they first came out and had those huge soles, but have not worn them in probably at least 10 years. However, they are one that I know works! They are around regular price ($150) and only have my size in one style (the Clifton). I would have preferred the Challenger, which is a trail running shoe, but they did not have my size, and after going to three stores already, I was ready to go home and have a glass of wine. Have I mentioned that I hate shopping? So I bought the Clifton, paid twice as much as I would have at home, and got a brand that I probably would not have bought had I had a choice. However, I was quite happy about it. See what happens when you lower your expectations!? 

Old shoes vs new shoes

I realize that this post is getting a lot longer than I thought it would so I will do a part two where I talk about the following "easy" tasks: Getting a new credit card sent to me. Shipping documents to the U.S. Getting something notarized. Doesn't that sound exciting? Stay tuned...

Have you ever had to do an "easy" thing in a different country that was harder than it should have been due to the customs or language barrier etc.? Or...what thing at home is always harder than it should be? 

24 comments:

  1. Going to the dentist, getting a haircut, and buying running shoes are pretty boring activities. My takeaway is that if you do these things in another country with a language barrier then they are less boring and you get good stories. Noted!

    I am a champion procrastinator which makes a lot of these mundane things harder only because I put them off for so long. We have a problem with our washing machine, we had someone look at it and say that we needed x part, and then he disappeared. So the ball is in my court - I need to pick up the phone and call him to find out what's up, which will either get him back here with the part or will put me on the path to calling someone else. I kept delaying making the call last week, and until I do we continue to have our washer problem.

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    1. I totally understand. I hate those little tasks around the house or having to do with household things needing to be fixed. I usually try to put it off too, especially if it is not critical. I have been known to "deal with it" a lot longer than I need to because I don't want to ACTUALLY deal with it!

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  2. I have obviously never done anything at all in a different country. But you know what is harder than it should be? Writing diplomatic emails. *sigh* I am not one for evasion, it turns out.

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    1. Haha! I get that! I like to get right to the point and my boss used to tell me that I needed to be more "warm and fuzzy." I don't really enjoy beating around the bush when you can wade right in! Diplomatic emails don't really jive well with full on truth/bluntness.

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  3. Welcome back to team Hoka! I don't run in Cliftons, but can't remember what kind I wear and am too lazy to look. I only buy running shoes about once/year so I buy them from the local running store as I fear they might go out of business if people don't go in there, and I like going in their store to poke around.

    I felt like the most basic tasks were hard in foreign countries. I spoke a little French but when I was in Paris I had a hard time understanding since they spoke so quickly. So buying things at a farmer's market was challenging because it was all verbal and I wasn't sure what I owned them so I would just put out a hand of coins and they would take what they needed and make change, if need be. I also found it hard to buy stamps! Which is the most basic of basic tasks!

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    1. I hate buying stamps too, and I always have to. It is so much easier to buy them at the same place where I get a post card, even if that means paying a lot more! I went into the PO in Türkiye and there were two lines and neither looked like stamp stuff (I think they also pay their bills inside?) and nobody made eye contact with me and this was in a part of the country that does not speak English and I knew I was going to have to use Google Translate and it was like...hm...maybe my Mom doesn't NEED a post card? Haha. It is hard sometimes! In Armenia you have to get a number and I could not for the life of me find where the machine was that would give me one! In Georgia you have to get a number but I just walked up to the counter and they did not insist, thank goodness! It's hard because it is not the same everywhere!

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  4. Wow, I have never once thought about dental cleanings nor haircuts in other countries, though of course if you're travelling you would have to do those things! (lol at "I don't care about my hair," it's like we aren't even the same species, Kyria!). I'm trying to think of things I've done in other countries and am coming up blank. I mean, I've bought things. I have had pedicures in the US (Maui). But never anything else! Not even a spa treatment! I mean, other than a pedicure, which I consider a necessity rather than an optional spa treatment (and now you're probably thinking "we really ARE two different species.") Oh! I did buy shoes, but they were sandals, in Greece circa 1992. And of course I've bought things in the States but that's not a hard thing to do.

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    1. I have never felt this way until right now, but my heels are so bad at the moment that getting a pedicure truly is beginning to feel like a medical necessity. lol!

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    2. Nicole, we are definitely of a different ilk. When you guys detail your beauty routines and the amount of time and money you spend on them I am like what the what? But hey, you do you! In my mind, if I don't stink or have any bats in the cave I am pretty happy. I HAVE gotten a pedicure and a facial in Thailand (and a massage, I highly recommend it!) but it is not something that I really need to do again, as I kind of like my callouses! I know you are thinking that is gross, but when you are a runner, it is sometimes better NOT to have tender feet! I also hate polish, fingers or toes, because I am an all or none and one little chip makes me want to peel the entire thing off, and that is not very constructive.

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  5. Good job on taking care of those tasks in a foreign country! I thought everything was SO much more difficult when I lived in France. I remember I needed to buy batteries for my alarm clock, but I didn't know the word for batteries. (No Google translate back in the 1990s!) Every store clerk looked at me like I was crazy. Finally one of them figured it out. I also remember when I came home how easy everything seemed.

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    1. Exactly! I had the same issues! I remember once I had to do something where the guy asked me to spell my name and I didn't know all the names for the letters (like....how do you say "y" in French!?!!?) and it was rough, and funny, but also I did not have Google translate. I feel like I learned more then though, because you just HAD TO.

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  6. Sheesh - the teeth cleaning alone sounded exhausting. I love that the hairdresser gave you a discount because it took so long. My hair is usually cut when dry too. I'm glad you found shoes, but bummer they were so pricey.

    I'd say the thing that was hard while in a foreign country for me was making a phone call because my phone didn't have an overseas package thing. We are set now that we have iPhones and Verizon - talk about hard? I was not in a foreign country when we switched phone service, but it felt like I was in the 7th circle of Hell or something. Oh, and Coach insisted on using Google Maps on his phone when we were in Prague and I wanted to chuck his phone over the side of the St. Charles bridge - because THE SIGN IS TELLING US IT IS HERE AND I BELIEVE THE SIGN. Also, buying shoes for the youngest two girls is hard, because of their club feet. I'm away from home and Mini and Coach called to say there are approx 75 boxes in the front hall. They're not lying, but that's the only way I can get shoes for them- buy multiple sizes and see what works (when the store doesn't have anything in inventory).

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    1. I need to do a couple of posts about phones and directions and stuff, because I have seen other posts/comments about people having trouble with this when traveling! I definitely remember (a) not even having a smartphone, or (b) when I did have one but the roaming was so expensive that I just carried it around like a paperweight (you could log onto wifi, but wifi was not as common as it is now, so I often went to an internet cafe to use the internet) (c) using phone cards to make calls home, but it was so expensive that I would basically talk for like 4 minutes and then get off! My how times have changed!

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  7. Luckily, we've never had to do anything like this in a foreign country except for getting my son's Ventolin refill in China (he had issues with the pollution), but I had an employee of G's company with me to do the talking and navigating everything. I think it cost us a couple of RMB (less than $1).

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    1. Yes! The prescriptions can be a lot less expensive! I know a guy who has to get inhalers and he buys them in bulk in places like Türkiye because they are so much less than at home. However, I had to buy paracetamol (otherwise known as Tylenol for you U.S. folks) in Türkiye and for 12 pills it was about $1.60 (so about $0.13 per pill), and you can get a huge bottle of 400 Tylenol at Costco for like $18.00 at home (about $0.04 per pill), so I don't feel like it was really a lot cheaper (not that I need 400 pills!). Also some of the things we cannot get over the counter are available in other countries at the regular pharmacy (with no prescription).

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  8. Oh I have TOTALLY thought about this subject!! I feel like I would be terrible in those situations. I struggle when abroad with feeling oddly very uncomfortable sometimes, like I'm somehow offending the people if I don't speak their language or know what their customs are, even if I am perfectly friendly and try my best and all of that. The idea of getting a haircut in a foreign language- or honestly, even in Mexico where I DO know the language- seems scary to me! (Even in Spanish I'm not sure if I'd know all the "right" terms necessarily). And then, I always stress about things like tipping or like you said, is haggling/negotiating a thing... "What if I do it wrong?!" Argh. You are so brave and I would love to be more like you!! You don't seem to let these things bother you at all!

    Ivan took the boys to get haircuts in Rome. I actually have no idea if the barber spoke English or how that actually went! I should ask him, haha! I had stayed back to freshen up for the evening while he took them. He's also taken them to get haircuts in Mexico, but that's his home country, so, doesn't really count. The only things I have personally ever done would be get a massage in Guatemala (I was alone- this was by far the most adventurous trip I've ever taken, and I'm not sure I could do it now anymore after NOT doing things like this for so many years) and in Seville, Spain I had to go to a specialty shoe store and buy shoe inserts bc my feet were killing me in some little canvas slip ons I had packed that did not have enough sole support for the cobblestone!

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    1. I think for men the haircut is easier; they just use a #2 to shave it and layer the top a little and you are good to go! Of course, for me, I just have them trim the end and I am good to go, so I am not too much harder. However, if you want highlights or specific layers or something, that could be a little harder to convey in a different language. I feel like even in English I don't know all the terms or words anyway, so it's not that different in a different language! Also, when I am home, I normally go to the barber college to get my hair cut so that the kids can learn, so really it is not that different abroad. The worst they can do it cut it too short or uneven, and then I can just put it up or wear a hat for a while. I am not really too worried about that.

      I would not even know how to ask for inserts! That is also something I am not even sure that I would really know how to ask for in English! I guess that is kind of how I approach it; it would be awkward anywhere, so why not here? However, I am shy and it sometimes does take a while to get things done, or for me to get up the gumption to just try it!

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  9. Ooh this is an interesting topic. I'm very impressed by the tasks you have undertaken - I find dentistry and haircuts to be very difficult as an immigrant - even in English speaking countries! In general, I find healthcare to be harder than it "should" be, though I think this may have to do with the nature of some very particular, complex issues I have dealt with over the years. Also, I should say that my experience hasn't been uniformly hard - childbirth and pre-natal care were relatively straightforward (I have two NHS babies!). The other issues probably would also have been difficult in the U.S.

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    1. I don't really know much about the process of using NHS (but have heard that there can be long wait times?) and I have not had to go for anything long lasting, but I have gone to the doctor in a few different countries and it has been fairly easy and not too expensive (or even downright cheap in some cases). I also had to go to the hospital in the US when I did not have insurance and it was NOT downright cheap! I did find out that you can do a payment plan, negotiate the price, and if you pay cash, sometimes get a "discount" but I would not really want to repeat that again!

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  10. Everything is different/harder in a foreign country specifically in Greece and I speak the language 😂. If you’re not there frequently it’s easy to forget day to day things like how to order even a coffee so it’s understood by them in Greek. Let’s see but to be honest conducting business is very difficult and involves lots of red tape. We own a home there and it’s always an adventure paying a water or electric bill (thankfully they’ve evolved to online banking) but not all so sometimes we have to go stand in lines figure out which department we have to go to to pay etc. Also, having to go to the bank (involves a ticket system, long lines and Greek time- hint slow slow pace) can be torturous as we’re used to fast service. Basically it requires a mind shift of being in a different country and remembering they have their ways and systems. Even going into a store they offer quite a different experience where they immediately ask what you’re looking for etc vs walking into large department stores or big box stores here in the us. Different experiences lol. We had to purchase a new bed a few years back which was pretty interesting experience in a small town in Greece. Imagine going down cellars into stores not as refined as the us and not the same experience of testing out mattresses etc to negotiating a price to figuring out deliver. Fun times but a great experience and wouldn’t do it differently.

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    1. That is very interesting! When I was in Türkiye I saw a lot of people standing in line at the Post Office and I assume (it looked like) they were paying their bills, and I remember being in Brazil and people would be standing in line at what looked like an ATM to me, but was the place that they would pay their bills in cash (I think). I have also heard that owning a home or getting work done in other countries (France for one) can be hard sometimes and the systems are not online and it can take a long time to get through the red tape! I think in France too they don't necessarily have island/Greece time, but they are not super worried about getting anything done quickly. To be fair, this does also happen in the U.S.! I know that sometimes getting a permit to do work on your house can be quite a chore! I am giggling picturing you buying a mattress, as I also remember going into those kinds of stores in Greece and having the guy sitting there with the cigarette in his mouth just waiting to "make a deal" with you!

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  11. I would go get a Hari cut in about any country. You can't really mess up my hair and I am so not particular. Ive been to the doctors in a foreign country. Not fun but manageable. I had broken shoes in Oslo but only need any sort of Chelsea boot.
    BUT never really in a country were English is an issue. That would be a bit more challenging.

    You did manage and I am sure the other things that are easier were similarly handled.

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    2. Yes, I think they are all doable but some are harder than others and some are harder than they should be or would be at home. However, it is all possible! I have gone to the doctor in several different countries for various things and it was not that bad!

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